<p>I think practice helps, because kids are socialized not to stand out, be “prideful, conceited” or toot their own horn in our school system. My daughter initially felt that answering the common question “Why should we take YOU and not the # others applying to the same spot?” was hopelessly embarassing. Plus the first interview tends to provoke panic. </p>
<p>I think spending time helping your D see her unique strengths would be very helpful, like “I love writing and can contribute to the …newspaper and the …literary magazine, and hope to possibly study with Mr. … whose book… I read and enjoyed.” Or pick math, science, languages, arts, athletics. Just pick something! Things that will make her stand out as a good match for the school. She will usually have about 2 minutes to do this. This theme should also be woven into as many essays and short answers as you can. Takes some research. KNOW THE SCHOOL, specific courses maybe, things it sees itself as strong in. Mentioning that she is aware of specific school offerings and strengths shows she is genuinely interested and has read the web site and glossy book carefully. </p>
<p>Not “I think BSchool would be good for me because I need motivation, and it might be fun”, this answer is way too general, and they are asking what unique talents she will bring.</p>
<p>Other very common questions, "Discuss interesting book (check out Outliers), challenge you have faced outside of school, where you want to be in 10 years, and the scary “do you have any other questions?” Instead of asking about the food, a good one for that is “How would you advise a new student to be successful here?” </p>
<p>Do not complain about current school (you will be labelled a compainer even if accurate). If there was a goof up in your prior behavior, you may need to discuss, but do so in a straightforward way, accept full personal responsibility (do not blame others in any way), and explain what you learned from the mishap. </p>
<p>Dress conservatively. Maybe a little fancier than you think you should (my D wore a skirt, flat shoes, blouse and jacket). Arrive with lots of time to spare, getting into parking problems or lost happens, give yourself extra time to arrive relaxed. </p>
<p>Parents be pretty much invisible. They are just checking you are not intolerable.</p>