<p>I suppose that, like many other things in this whole process, it depends on the school. My d was waitlisted at a reach school. The FAQ they sent with the waitlist, specifically said:</p>
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As stated earlier, letting us know if [college] is your first choice is a good idea. You may also submit additional information (new grades, new scores, honors earned, etc.) for the admissions committee to review if you wish. However, it is NOT a good idea to embark on a "campaign" to gain admission, soliciting numerous letters of support or asking all of your friends and teacher to call!
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<p>At this point, unless there's something amazing that happens, if d decides to stay on the waitlist, she may send 3rd quarter grades if they're good, but other than that, I'll advise her to forget about it and plan as if she's going to whichever other school she chooses. Then she's not in limbo, and if she gets off the waitlist, then we'll worry about choices.</p>