<p>I agree with Danalynne. Love the one you're with.</p>
<p>Thirtysomething years ago, I was waitlisted by my first choice college. I chose immediately to go elsewhere and not accept the place on the waitlist. Within a few days, I had adjusted to the fact that I would be going to College B instead of College A, and I was focused on my new plans. I think it is quite psychologically difficult to commit to B when you're still on the waitlist for A.</p>