<p>Contact the American Psychology Association, which has info about licensed psychologists' specialties. You may even be able to get this info directly from their website.</p>
<p>Because you are fortunately in a part of the country in which there are many well trained mental health specialists, you should be able to find someone within a reasonable distance who has the expertise to help you.</p>
<p>Here's an Asperger's website with lots of links that probably could be helpful to you.:<a href="http://users.wpi.edu/%7Etrek/aspergers.html#internet%5B/url%5D">http://users.wpi.edu/~trek/aspergers.html#internet</a></p>