<p>The simple fact is that people have to be accountable for their actions. And unfortunately for boys and for girls being naive is not an excuse. Another reason why there is a judicial system to determine what is punishable and what is not. Date rape drugs are a crime. Drinking underage is a crime. Taking certain drugs is a crime. Stalking someone is a crime. Not helping a friend or someone who is clearly drunk and out of control to fend for themselves male or female, unconscionable. Two drunk people having sex behind closed doors after hanging all over each other all evening…pretty gray. The judicial system is not a perfect system clearly, but rarely are circumstances clear and there are clear avenues to follow. Asking a college system to make decisions that are potentially legal decisions is not fair to any party. </p>
<p>I actually believe that most people do take their own actions into account and would not abuse the system. But the system needs to be there to protect both parties not to be used as a bargaining chip for federal aid. There was some good with Title IX, I actually was on a high school boys team in a sport I loved before Title IX, my age is showing. No locker rooms, had to wait on the bus in my damp clothes at away matches while the boys showered, had to change at the high school before the matches because there wasn’t any accommodations at the away school and took alot of guff from alot of guys. That’s what Title IX was intended to help…not determining things like sexual abuse, stalking, etc which is covered by criminal law.</p>