Some here (and I’ll try not to hint who) are making my head spin. Lol. You start with some assumptions (or even convictions) and build from there. I don’t find that effective.
First, from at least the 50’s on, “aptitude” was a focus of many psychological studies. As with many academic topics, it was driven by some curiosity. Not necessarily meant to come up with some absolute type of measurement.
And you always need to put studies and their results into some context- here, college. So what, about aptitude? Colleges care less about some vague potential and more about how you’ve actually used that, how you actually performed and likely will continue to. In holistic, it ranges into other ways we integrate, influence, are influenced, and move forward.
I said, and still see, that the standardized tests are simply another hurdle. You want to do well, as it’s another metric. They exist (up to now.) I do not see them as intended to validate course grades. Sure, they may. But doing well is (usually) a matter of focus, recognition that you face this and can put the effort into doing well, that you are that type. And elite holistics are looking for that type.
In the holistic scenario, it’s useless to take the std test results and try to stack them (that this 800 is better than that 720.) Stacking in that way is not holistic. It’s hierarchical thinking. (It’s true you’ll face a bar, for the most- and highly-competitive colleges. And, in the end, IF they’re going to cherry pick among kids otherwise fully compelling, they may choose the higher score kid. But remember, fully compelling is much more than academic might.)
Nor is it about, “Omg, the poor dears.” I feel we keep returning to the fear of “stress” (any implying) as a reason to hold back. Kids take on this challenge or not. If they can’t bear it, the issue is likely how they respond to a challenge or uncertainty, in the first place, confidence, a willingness to go for it, and more. I.e., inherent. Something that could have been recognized earlier, a decision made how to handle this. If they can’t bear it, why are they in the high stakes game? Why? And there are plenty of kids who do thrive with full schedules, the balancing act, still have friends, fun times, enough sleep, et al. They’ll adapt to the pressures of a tippy top better.
Then all the fuss about prep. Rich kids are not the only ones getting support. Lower SES kids are not all the common picture of babysitting 11 siblings, suffering awful high schools, with no encouragement, mentoring, opportunities. I think you’d have to be exposed to these higher performers, their full picture, what some do achieve- and get away from the dang stereotypes.
A lot of this IS about drives, awareness, how an individual approaches challenges, resilience, etc.
The top colleges are not an easy ride. If you want to avoid various challenges, hurdles , comparisons, etc, pick a different set of targets. Don’t just repeat about the tests being the fault, how they should be thrown out. Be realistic.