<p>When I arrived as a student at Yale, my elders solemnly informed me that one should speak only of that school in Cambridge and not invoke the dread name of Harvard.</p>
<p>For those who didnt get the memo: It was a joke.</p>
<p>True, theres an old and venerable football rivalry between the two schools, as detailed in this Stroll Through the Ages: A look at the history of The Game from 2001:
<a href="http://www.harvardindependent.com/news/2001/11/15/Sports/A.Stroll.Through.The.Ages-146369.shtml%5B/url%5D:%5Bquote%5DAsk">http://www.harvardindependent.com/news/2001/11/15/Sports/A.Stroll.Through.The.Ages-146369.shtml:
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Ask</a> anyone which college sports rivalry is the most venerated and steeped in tradition and you'll hear, "Harvard-Yale." Ask anyone which one annual Ivy League football contest is guaranteed to command national media attention and you'll hear, "Harvard-Yale." And ask what two schools' student bodies (and alumni) have loathed each other most fervently and most interminably. Inevitably the answer will ring, "Harvard and Yale."</p>
<p>So why, you wonder, do these schools hate each other with such a passion? I will not attempt to answer that question, for its roots are too deep and philosophical to touch in one mere essay. I can, however, attest to the Harvard student's innate and profound knowledge: "Yale sucks, therefore I am."
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As far as I can tell, the mutual cries of Yale/Harvard sucks go back to 1974: <a href="http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=118346%5B/url%5D">http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=118346</a>.</p>
<p>But do they betoken deep hostility or fears of inferiority on either side? For that matter, do most students at either school take the whole thing very seriously? Not in my experience, and not according to a student who transferred from Duke to Harvard and compared the famous Harvard-Yale rivalry to the one between Duke and UNC (<a href="http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=160711%5B/url%5D):%5Bquote%5DAn">http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=160711):
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An</a> early indication to me that there is no real rivalry between the two schools was that Harvard students and Yale students seem to actually be friends. Duke students hate UNC students, and more importantly, look down on them. It is hard for Harvard students to be quite as snobby in regard to Yale, although we try to. Our safety school cheer rings pretty hollow given the large number of kids who choose Yale over Harvard or come to Harvard because they didnt get into Yale.
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Before Byerly chimes in with his cherished--if slightly woolly and out-of-date--cries about cross-admits <a href="%C2%93The%20overwhelming%20majority%20of%20common%20admits%20to%20Harvard%20and%20Yale%20choose%20Harvard%20for%20undergraduate%20education%20-%20and%20always%20have%C2%94">i</a>,* let me stipulate for the sake of argument that he is absolutely correct. My point is that Yale students arent defensive and worried about it the way that he imagines. They think the rivalry is pretty funny.</p>
<p>Take, for example, the Yale-bashing that the Harvard-educated writers artfully weave into episodes of The Simpsons (<a href="http://www.harvardmagazine.com/issues/so97/alumni.simpsons.html%5B/url%5D)%5Bquote%5DReading">http://www.harvardmagazine.com/issues/so97/alumni.simpsons.html)
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Reading</a> Homer:</p>
<p>Writer Richard Appel (who carries on The Simpsons' Harvard tradition this season, along with Cohen, Greaney, and Meyer) credits the "almost silly and embarrassing" quality of the ancient Harvard-Yale rivalry itself for providing such a rich source of comedy. A former attorney, he expertly defends the show's Yale-bashing practices as "shorthand for making fun of an Ivy-League pompous type." Which is not to say he feels remorseful: "Personally, I never experienced a moral quandary about making fun of Yale...Even to say 'poking fun at Yale' and 'moral quandary' in the same sentence would be a stretch." Oakley also shrugs off any question of foul play: "We do it because it's fun."
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And are Yalies offended? No--they consider the Harvard alums behind the show to be some of Hollywoods funniest writers ( <a href="http://www.yaledailynews.com/article.asp?AID=101%5B/url%5D">http://www.yaledailynews.com/article.asp?AID=101</a>).</p>
<p>Sometimes this supposedly cutthroat rivalry is even harnessed in the service of a social good like a blood or recycling drive:
Students to bleed for victory(<a href="http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=505488%5B/url%5D">http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=505488</a>) or In recycling, Harvard kicks our dumpsters (<a href="http://www.yaledailynews.com/article.asp?AID=27474%5B/url%5D">http://www.yaledailynews.com/article.asp?AID=27474</a>). </p>
<p>But as Harvard President Larry Summers pointed out in his remarks at the Yale Tercentennial in 2001 (<a href="http://www.president.harvard.edu/speeches/2001/yale.html%5B/url%5D):%5Bquote%5D%5Bhighlight%5D%5Bb%5D*We">http://www.president.harvard.edu/speeches/2001/yale.html):
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***We</a> joke about our rivalry, without ever fully concealing our robust mutual admiration. In a real and deep sense, we are colleagues spurring each other forward and promoting values that we both share.
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Its all good. ;)</p>
<p>P.S. Not surprisingly, our counterparts at Oxford and Cambridge universities are engaged in nearly identical debates on the other side of the ocean. For example, theres a site called Oxbridgeinfo (If you are thinking about applying to Oxford or Cambridge then this is the site for you!), with a discussion of "How did you decide between Oxford and Cambridge? at <a href="http://oa.waveflex.com/profiles/q_disp.asp?q=HowDecide%5B/url%5D">http://oa.waveflex.com/profiles/q_disp.asp?q=HowDecide</a>.</p>
<p>And I found this piece by an Oxford student writing for a Cambridge audience ( <a href="http://www.varsity.co.uk/mambo/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=8033&Itemid=55%5B/url%5D):%5Bquote%5DBeneath">http://www.varsity.co.uk/mambo/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=8033&Itemid=55):
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Beneath</a> all this posturing, most students can remember the time when they chose between Oxford and Cambridge. If they are honest, they'll remember that, unless they were studious enough to know what their course contained, there was not much between them. I for one (don't tell my tutors) plumped for Oxford because of that exotic and slightly louche 'x' lurking in the name. Frankly, if there were a university in Ashby-de-la-Zouche, I'd probably be there. A sense of university pride is merely something freshers pick up in their first term because they remember seeing the boat race once, and like the idea of belonging.
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