What About Dating?

<p>I think that this is sort of out of the whole topic, but I have to ask:
Would you date in the school?
I mean, wouldn't you get kind of slacked off at class?
YOu'll be so focused on the guy in class thinkin'
"OMG He's so hot."
Your opinion?
I guess you could gain a spirit of competition with the guy and you two could create a homework helping bond.</p>

<p>I have a few friends who attend boarding school. They say there are a lot of hookups, but they don't last long...usually a couple of weeks. Also, once you do anything with anybody, it seems everybody knows about it. Rumors fly around fast. Also, there is a lot more hooking up between kids of different grades (ex: junior boys w/ freshman girls...). That would never happen at my high school. Even alot of sophomore boys don't want to date the freshman girls right now.</p>

<p>huh, it seems like it would be a lot harder to date tho, because if you break up, well, your practically living with the guy....awkward...</p>

<p>onelittlepanda, if you are not already like that at your current coed why would it be different at a bs? believe me when I say that the boys at bs are definitly not better looking</p>

<p>although I agree with nellyrae that it definitly would be weird, probably not dramatically worse than a small day school</p>

<p>At my sister's boarding school, the boys are really cute! :D:D:D I'd apply there for that reason alone (haha kinda jk), but I don't want to be at the same school as her.</p>

<p>i hope i go to a school with cute boys, currently there is no one at my arts school, unless of course you li9ke ballet dancers who parade around you in tights, then there are plenty of options! LOL.</p>

<p>rose&clover : Good point.</p>

<p>onelittlepanda
haha i date or at least always have that "one hot smexy guy i cant stop thinking about" everywhere i go =)
its fun and it loosens your life up a little...i would think at boarding school and with all the pressure that would be needed =]
and with schools as huge as some of the boarding schools we're applying to, it wont be that bad. i mean if you break up with the guy, even though you'll both be spending time on campus a lot...it's little different than if you just break up with someone at your school right now. you'll just probably be seeing more of him. there's awkward moments here at home and i'm guessing, there at boarding school.</p>

<p>i hope the guys at one of the boarding schools i'm hoping that i get into will be cute. :)</p>

<p>at the school i attend we do have a lot of hookups, and a fair share of serious relationships. </p>

<p>and yeah breakups are kinda awkward lol.</p>

<p>Anyone knows anything about dating at Peddie ?</p>

<p>Right now I'm in a teenytiny town where if you hook-up or get in or out of a relationship EVERYONE KNOWS the next day. It's either the person behind the register at the cinema or the random parent who drove by you walking in the park.</p>

<p>We get used to it.</p>

<p>kitkatbar</p>

<p>your sister must not go to exeter</p>

<p>nope, she goes to school in california.</p>

<p>You never know roses.
Maybe some serious hotties are going to be admitted this year.
Why make such a broad generalization?? There must be SOMEE decently looking students.</p>

<p>well, there has to be at least one or two. but do you honestly think we'll have much time for dating? and for dances, do you HAVE to have a date to go? or could you just go with your friends?</p>

<p>
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but do you honestly think we'll have much time for dating?

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That made me laugh...but a lot of people did find time for dating, I'll tell you that. Just like any other school.</p>

<p>haha. nelly. its not prison. i'm sure that there is ample time for having some co-ed fun.</p>

<p>hey,</p>

<p>i'm a freshman right now..so i'm going through something that you'll be going through this coming fall. and i just wanted to say i'm actually not shy. i'm really outgoing. but i treat everyone as my friend, and let's just say i've only liked 3 guys in my life more than a friend. so for me..i guess you could say i'm shy around guys. but here at my boarding school (andover) there are relationships and stuff. people date. but for me, i'm not so into that type of stuff. like i have guy friends but for the most part we don't worry about dating. i think it's mostly we don't have time. you barely have time for your friends, and this is just personal. but i think having tons of great friends that you can always talk to is so much better than relationship. i guess it depends. but don't worry about not having a boyfriend and feeling left out or something. it's no biggie :)</p>

<p>"kitkatbar</p>

<p>your sister must not go to exeter"</p>

<p>As a male at exeter, I resent that.</p>

<p>haha. this is funny! bumpppp!</p>