<p>From what I have seen and heard, the “greek life” at Furman is not neccesary to have a social life at all. It’s a very small part of the campus culture. On the surface, it would seem like the school is exclusionary, just based on price, but other than that I don’t think that they try to exclude anyone from anything. So far, I know of three students from my son’s high school who were excepted at Furman (including him) and the other two are both black. I hate to mention race, but I have no reason to believe that there is any racism there. I can only assume, that if there is no racism, there are probably not a lot of other barriers either. </p>
<p>Both of the students that I ate lunch with a few weeks ago told us that the instructors were very concerned for each student as a person and not just a school ID number. Then we met one of the music instructors who walked around and spoke with many of the students.</p>
<p>I have also noticed that on the weekends the school is full of ROTC activities. People who are interested in military as a long term career probably don’t pick Furman as a first choice, so I can only assume that there are so many ROTC students because they choose ROTC as a way of paying for college (which indicates to me that they all ain’t rich spoiled brats).</p>
<p>The only Furman student that my son knows really well is from my same home town. His mother is a high school teacher and he spent part of his summer working with our high school band as a bandcamp instructor and he is currently student teaching. They are very “real world” type people.</p>
<p>When my son auditioned for the music department, he had Furman students who just walked up to him out of the blue and started up conversations. They all seemed to be interested in him as a person, but not in a “judging” type of way. One of them even suggested activities at Furman that my son should consider doing. After my son auditioned, one of the auditionors (if that is a word) came out of the audition room and shook my hand (actually kind of suprised me a little).</p>
<p>I also think that the administration goes out of it’s way to create a highly diverse student body. The post last week from the foriegn student who mentioned that he got a full ride scholarhip indicates that.</p>
<p>Also, when I have been on campus, I looked at the cars parked in the student housing areas. I saw pretty much the same types of cars that you would see on any high school campus (maybe a few less pickup trucks). No luxury cars, no exotic sports cars, just every day normal cars.</p>
<p>My son is from a very middle and class working family, will be graduating from a very typical public high school, and has absolutely no prejudices and is much more the bluejeans and tee-shirt type of person than he is a coat-n-tie person and they accepted him (and believe me, they can tell a lot about a person from the application). We still don’t know if he will be attending Furman (he is thinking a lot about going to his second choice school and I don’t know if we can swing the finances at Furman), but if he does attend Furman, if nothing else, you can hang with him.</p>
<p>I am sure that there is a group of preppy students who have their own little click, and maybe you wont get invited to their parties or study groups unless your parents are rich or unless you have that certain “look”, but you will find that EVERYWHERE. </p>
<p>If you do a web search, including on this site, you will find lots of people with the same concern as you have, but in almost every response, you will find that students have almost always said “it’s not like that at Furman”. I suspect that the nice campus and high cost and high level of student achievement give a lot of people the wrong impression.</p>