<p>what if you're ugly</p>
<p>q.e.d</p>
<p>Someone who has made a concerted effort to kiss someone and not gotten it done by 20 is a loser, imo.</p>
<p>No big deal really, just don't care so much about what MOST people do, if it's not right for you.</p>
<p>@panic
Dude! well said......</p>
<p>and guys, i think whether kissing or not kissing is not the things which are important.What is important, is to jsut study and be successful or IMO have a gf only if u can manage her as it is ... us engineers or doctors have to do a lot of studying and stuff.Albeit you guys who get into business admininstration studies etc. have ample of time to waste and party out :-)</p>
<p>While it may be pathetic that I've never been kissed, I've only really been seriously interested in two girls in my life and neither wanted to be more than friends.</p>
<p>And I guess I'm sort of ambivalent. If no one is interested in even talking with me, and I do present oppurtunities in classes and in public, because I'm actually quite sociable in public, then why bother?</p>
<p>But I can't change who I am. If people find my sense of humor weird or my ideals strange, or find me unnapproachable, how am I supposed to change that? I never understood why guys did these whole overhauls of their images in college just in the hopes of getting laid. I'm not changing who I am and I'm not playing silly games to seduce people. Either they want to hang out and take it further or they don't. It's not a gameshow for me.</p>
<p>Don't get me wrong, it depresses me that each year that goes by makes it harder and harder to approach people without them thinking I'm some sort of alien. I can have a sense of humor about it- but I'm pretty sure no one else will. But I can't really lower my standards because banging random people has never interested me, even though I guess it's supposed to because I'm in college.</p>
<p>But those are just my thoughts on the subject.</p>
<p>I think my problem is that deep inside I never genuinely cared. The only reason I ever wanted to get kissed was because it seemed like everyone else already has and I felt that I was missing out. Otherwise, I could careless.</p>
<p>I don't even want a relationship as I have enough trouble maintaining friends as it is, why an extra burden of romance?</p>
<p>I'm probably asexual or have a very low need for boyfriends. Oh well.</p>
<p>anything over 14....</p>
<p>don't you people play spin the bottle? I usually played with 5 girls and myself.... that's teh way</p>
<p>i seem to get the impression most CCers dont go out much so i have to say dont worry about it. my advice to you is once u get to college watch american pie emulate wut they do and go to a college party</p>
<p>It depends. Everyone is different.</p>
<p>ahahha come on dude!!! hahaha american univs are in no way like american pie...american pie has just embellished college life lol</p>
<p>Hmm..I don't think it matters that much to be quite honest...</p>
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<p>Nah, I think I'll pass on bro rape.</p>
<p>my advice to you is once u get to college watch faces of death emulate wut they do</p>
<p>I guess I'm a loser. I wouldn't want to be involved physically with someone with whom I wan't involved romantically. I actually turned down an offer to fool around (no sex, just making out). That person just did it with someone else. I don't want my relationships to be like that.</p>
<p>I was kissed once when I was younger, but I don't count it because of reasons I'd rather not discuss. I've kissed male friends (are they friends? they're like the friends you sort of date but not really) amorously on the cheeks, but that's it. I find it a lot easier to touch in other ways. Lying on top of each other, heads on shoulders, hands all over, etc. Kissing seems more intimate and I think I'd want to save it for something more special.</p>
<p>"so what if you havent kissed by the age of 20? some of us didnt have the best upbringings socially, were sheltered, or had strict parents that didnt encourage dating, etc"</p>
<p>It's still possible to sneak around, and making excuses DOES make you seem like a loser.</p>
<p>That said, yeah, people can be mean. College Confidential Cafe, offering a B.A. in Hard Knocks.</p>
<p>I think it's pretty acceptable/common for people to enter college as kissing-virgins. They don't tend to stay that way though XP</p>
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I was raised in a puritanical Muslim household. My mom is Middle-eastern and was constantly worried I would turn into a slutty whore (her idea of "whore" is drastically different from ours) and wouldn't let me date. I still had 2 boyfriends in high school...did it involve a lot of sneaking around? YES. If I was talking to my boyfriend in the house near my parents, i would call him "Katie" :D I told my mom I joined the Bowling Club and would go to "Bowling meets" after school....hahah. Your parents/upbringing are only an excuse if they kept you on a leash...</p>
<p>^ I was raised in a muslim household too. I would get in a ridiculous amount of trouble if I ever got a bf. And, haha I've used that trick before-- substituting a girl's name with a guy's LOL.</p>
<p>I'm a cool dude and all and have kissed a few girls.
However, I'll be the first to admit that I have never kissed a girl sober and am 18.
It's something which helps fuel my alcoholic ways..</p>
<p>I wouldn't call somebody who has never kissed a girl a loser per se, I would just say that they need to get out more.</p>
<p>A lot more.</p>