Kurt- another hug to you.
Here’s one way to look at it- your parents are doing what they can to provide a safe and secure home for you. Picking up and moving as an adult is scary- for your dad to take a new job in a new place with a terrible commute- this shows you how committed he is to making this work for your family. The state is doing what it can to provide an education for its citizens- which includes having rules about who qualifies for what kind of assistance, which is the only way to protect the tax payers of Florida.
And now you are going to do what you need to do to make sure you get a college education. This includes sitting your parents down and showing them why you can’t afford to be in school until you qualify for in-state residency, meeting with the financial aid counselor to make sure you are on track for every dime you qualify for next year, AND finding a job which will help you bank some cash for next year AND potentially help out your family right now.
Teamwork. don’t get frustrated, just focus on how every link in the chain is going to operate to make this work. You are smart and motivated and although you’ve had some setbacks, I know you can do it!