@MikeTyson51, boy do I have a lot things I want to say just from reading some of your posts on the first page of this thread.
I just want to remark that the valedictorian from my high school this year had a 2400 SAT, stellar grades, and an extraordinarily high GPA but was flat out rejected from Princeton after being deferred early action. She had tons of extracurriculars, was a very very sweet person, and I honestly cannot find one fault about her.
Another student from my high school applied with lesser GPA, test scores, and did just the average extracurriculars activities. That student didn’t apply early action, and only applied regular and got in. I cannot say that the student didn’t deserve it, for I didn’t read the application. All I can say is that it wasn’t what everyone expected.
Just to note that the college admissions process is a blind shot taken. Once you have the qualitative numbers and are in their range, you have just as much of a shot as anyone else. A 2400 on your SAT is superb, but it’s not your ticket in. You’re competing with extraordinarily bright students in all facets: academically, extracurricularly, and personality wise. No matter where you apply, you will never be what is called “a shoo-in” simply because there is no such student. When I applied this past year, I was rejected from all of my target schools and accepted into a few of my reach. It made no sense to me – what did I have to make me desirable to some schools and less desirable for schools that I was expected to get into? You’ll never know until you apply, and never go in thinking you’re all that great. Be humble, for you never know who you’re competing against.
Apply to schools because you like them, not for prestige. If you really like Princeton, go for it! But don’t cut other incredible schools off your list simply because they don’t have the prestige factor. There are a lot of gems that people tend to glance over. And, as cliche as it sounds, it’s what you make of your college experience, not necessarily the brand name.
And I know you’re from abroad, where some universities may solely/very very very strongly look at your academics to decide whether to accept you or not (I could be wrong with this statement). In the U.S., once you’ve crossed the barrier into the zone where you’re in their academic range, your extra curriculars, experiences, and personality in your essays are what can make or break you. Although to some of us, we think that they take too little time on an application, admissions officers really are faced with a tough job of trying to make a diverse class - diverse in race, religion, socioeconomic status, and, most importantly in my opinion, in thought. Bringing many intelligent people with different experiences allows us to learn from our classmates too, so many colleges are looking beyond the scores and numbers before they say ‘yes.’
In the end, you’ll get into the college which fits you best – it may be the school you thought was right from the beginning or a completely different one. Keep an open mind, apply if you feel like you have a decent chance, and just hope for the best. It’s all one can do, in the end.
I wish you the best, and I honestly hope that you change your attitude for your own sake. Not just for the college process, but for you as a human being.
Good luck.