@Dunboyne yeah, I think what will probably end up happening (once we get all the finance stuff figured out) is that my parents and I will probably pick the school that is the “best bang for our buck”, meaning it’s a good school and a good fit but isn’t horribly expensive and is something that is decently affordable. I’m probably going to have to look over the lists on here of schools with good merit or financial aid (you’re welcome to add any you think of that are probably good for me and have good fin aid). 
I’ve visited UMass Amherst before, but it’s a little too big and rowdy for me, although in a financial bind it’s always a fine option.