I’m in a similar situation since I’m looking for small-ish northeast schools that are academically rigorous, but would also allow me to continue piano and have pretty good music programs in general. So far I’ve heard the best things about Williams, Vassar, Yale, Brandeis and Tufts. Also Swarthmore and Wesleyan but to a lesser extent. Obviously Oberlin is a great music school, but like intparent said, I’ve heard that there are not a lot of opportunities for non-conservatory students. Hope that helps!