what do do when everyone is against you?

<p>I'm sure most of us have experienced a time when you felt like the whole school was against you. when people are spreading false rumors about you. So how did you continue to hold ur head up high?</p>

<p>become a goth</p>

<p>Well first of all, what did YOU do to get yourself in this mess?
And think about who are your TRUE friends…just think.
Then get back to me. :]</p>

<p>Ignore the rumors and pretend that nothing happened. Don’t let it bother you :D</p>

<p>Well, I’ve never had this kind of problem but from watching a movie I can offer a solution.</p>

<p>Learn to dance very well. It worked out for Napoleon D.</p>

<p>Never happened to me, but find someone(friend) and just get over it with them.</p>

<p>I went through a situation similar to that and I would just suggest sticking with your friends who will be with you no matter what happens. Also some good advice is to just remember in 5 or 10 years from now will this situation have made some HUGE impact on your life? Probably not and youll just look back on the whole thing wondering why you wasted so much time worrying about it. So whatever your going through, it will pass and everyone will move on just keep focused on things your interested and stick with your true friends.</p>

<p>I would console you, but it depends what you did. :P</p>

<p>Just be who you are, and if you have wronged anyone, apologize for your mistake, make amends, and go on. Eventually, even those people who shun you will see that you are a good person (provided you are one, of course), and eventually, they’ll filter back your way. It happened to me twice, and while very hard to live with, life does go on. Good luck!</p>

<p>It’s obviously tough to go through something like that, but it’s important to keep sight of who you are; don’t let people’s skewed perceptions of you change how you feel about yourself. If you focus on becoming a better person (not for the sake of being liked, but for the satisfaction of having a more complete life) then small incidents won’t bother you because you’ll have a constant goal to fall back on.</p>

<p>That being said, if you were at fault you have to own up to what you did and try to move passed it.</p>

<p>Become antisocial. W00T.</p>

<p>Act against myself then everyone agrees with me :D</p>

<p>start taking your psychiatric prescription again…</p>

<p>Dont give a **** what <em>everyone</em> thinks about you. Just get a few verrry close friends and you will do great! I have like 2 best friends… but i am still friends with everyone else. This has never happened to me really though… kinda but not that bad. Don’t become emo… no reason for the whatsoever
heh antisocial… will be even worse i think :] just be nice to everyone… ppl will start to realize ur really nice and start to likke u</p>

<p>write an angsty poem.</p>

<p>Remind yourself that you’re probably not important enough for people to really care what you’ve done.</p>

<p>Most people will probably devote five minutes or so of thought or conversation to your situation, then move on with their lives. People have better things to do than worry about the latest gossip. No one really cares, at least after a while.</p>

<p>As for the people you actually talk to – well, those people actually might be against you.</p>

<p>No-one-cares dude. You shouldn’t care about this either. Care about important stuff.</p>

<p>Okay, thanks for all the support guys. I’m over it, and I do have a group of really supporting friends that are true. It’s just that sometimes you are caught up in something and you feel like ranting it to everyone. :)</p>

<p>find a couple of people who aren’t…and stick with 'em =D</p>

<p>THats good you’re over it. You shouldnt get caught up in thinking about this. Just focus on studies! - Thats what i do :slight_smile: i dont really care</p>