what do girls look for in a guy?

<p>nice/kind?
looks?
wealth?
athletic abilities?
cool-ness?
style?
intelligence?
dominating?</p>

<p>We all look for different things. </p>

<p>nice/kind- but not so that i feel they're a complete pushover or not acting real</p>

<p>looks- i mean i have to have some physical attraction to him, but I don't need a brad pitt or anything. I just like a guy I think is cute</p>

<p>wealth-nah. I don't need someone who buys me things all the time. just a normal avg. guy</p>

<p>athletic abilities- i don't care either way</p>

<p>coolness- I'm not cool. as long as people don't look and think he's a loser</p>

<p>style- again, if he can match, and just look bathed, he doesn't need to be stylish</p>

<p>intelligence-someone who can stimulate me, make me think, but not someone who's intelligence makes me feel stupid :p</p>

<p>dominating-no. assertive. yes. :p</p>

<p>I'm not looking for certain things really, he just needs to be a modest, nice, guy.</p>

<p>Lol HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH</p>

<p>Robert Pattinson, Hayden Christensen, and David Boreanaz is what I look for <em>sigh</em></p>

<p>i look for personality</p>

<p>lol, you don't ONLY look for personality, and if you say you do you're a liar. :)</p>

<p>Just be a jerk to them and you'll get the girls. Seriously.</p>

<p>I tried this this year and it worked rather well. Don't bother IMing/calling them. Regularly break plans you make 3 weeks in advance. Don't buy them anything really (at least not immediately). Oh and also, this technique works even better if the girl smokes cigarettes or something.</p>

<p>Oh yeah, I love *******s. Especially the smelly types.</p>

<p>Dude, read the book The System by Roy Valentine, I'm not kidding... YOU WILL LEARN EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN WANT (well 85-90% of them), AND HOW TO GIVE IT TO THEM SO YOU CAN GET LAID NOW!!!!!!!</p>

<p>Hehehehe. you read books on how to get laid. that right there won't get you laid...well...assuming they find out...</p>

<p>lalalaoh, knowing is the only way to do it.... If you never learn the basics, you're just taking stabs in the dark.</p>

<p>Reading books about how to pick up women, how to flirt, how to use your body language, etc... is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of true desire to know how to please a woman, and a lot of women appreciate a man who has put in the effort to learn how women tick.</p>

<p>Ever heard the statement, "knowledge is power"? Well, I find it to be rather true.</p>

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Just be a jerk to them and you'll get the girls. Seriously.

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<p>reminds me of that spongebob episode where he gets anchor arms...</p>

<p>Well put, 311Griff. I stand corrected.</p>

<p>nice/kind? :) i dont like this. I LOVE IT :) it motivates me to be nicer too and less *****y.
looks? not so much. but they can be a plus!
wealth? dont care
athletic abilities? dont care
cool-ness? yay! :)
style? yes please
intelligence? somewhat
dominating? noo!!</p>

<p>I've been informed by some nice looking ladies (last weekend at the coffee shop) that for them it's:</p>

<ol>
<li>eyes</li>
<li>personality (good at flirting, good conversationalist, fun)</li>
<li>smile</li>
</ol>

<p>Were these two exceptionally good looking girls off?</p>

<p>(by the way, I could have had both, but generously declined) ;)</p>

<p>I'm telling you guys, if you want game, you gotta be reading the right books and playing the right music!</p>

<p>I think it varies from girl to girl. Personally I (a guy) don't care about looks and so when I see a girl who only goes after cute guys and squeals in delight at TV/movie characters that's a turn-off. So it really depends on the guy and the girl.</p>

<p>Think of it like colleges: there's no one formula for being the perfect applicant! :D</p>

<p>I like guys who are shy at first but then open up later.
And he must wear chucks.
And cynical at times.</p>

<p>sensitivity.</p>

<p>nice/kind? yeah, but they have to be really confident and slightly arrogant...
looks? of course, but personality can outweigh this
wealth? i like cool cars...
athletic abilities? athletic guys are hot. i love muscles
cool-ness? cool-ness is relative
style? they better have some style
intelligence? he better be really intelligent
dominating? slightly dominating is cool. but not too much.</p>

<p>I really think celebrian hit it. Everyone is different, and the only thing I personally disagree with in that statement, is the athletic part.</p>

<p>I like sports. I was a 3 sports varsity athlete freshman year. I would hope a guy I liked could at least keep up with me. I don't necessarily need the best athlete. But I am more likely to drool over a state ranked boy than one who passes out a mile into a race.</p>