what do girls look for in a guy?

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<p>Strictly out of curiousity, hotpiece101, and since I sense some superficiality in your response (not that there's anything wrong with that;)):</p>

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wealth? i like cool cars...

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<p>Would you give a guy a ride if his car was sweet?</p>

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athletic abilities? athletic guys are hot. i love muscles

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<p>Does he get a ride if he has a "gym habit"?</p>

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intelligence? he better be really intelligent

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<p>Does Harvard=Free ride?</p>

<p>Honestly, I think the main thing you want in a guy hotpiece, is this:</p>

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nice/kind? yeah, but they have to be really confident and slightly arrogant...

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<p>if a guy plays like this, really confident (in his ability to please a woman especially) that is, and he will drive you nuts :p</p>

<p>huh?</p>

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Would you give a guy a ride if his car was sweet?

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i'm assuming that by "give a guy a ride" you mean have sex with. and the answer is no.
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Does he get a ride if he has a "gym habit"?

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no, he doesn't...
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Does Harvard=Free ride?

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not necessarily.</p>

<p>311, i want a combination of all or some of those things. A single factor is not enough for me to really be interested in them (i.e. a nice car is not enough without some other personality traits)...</p>

<p>and how did this become about sex?!
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if a guy plays like this, really confident (in his ability to please a woman especially)

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i meant general confidence in everything they do, i wasn't even thinking about sex within my responses...</p>

<p>seriously for me to give any guy a "ride" they would have to be:
A) Brad Pitt
B) the most amazing combination of a humorous personality, arrogance, hotness, intelligence, and muscle ever created
C) someone I loved</p>

<p>So, to sum up your questions: NO!!!</p>

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<p>Did I say sex? somebody is thinking dirty over here! </p>

<p>Anyways, I don't believe this:
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i want a combination of all or some of those things. A single factor is not enough for me to really be interested in them

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<p>I think there is one factor that you would take over all the rest, given that it was genuine.</p>

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Did I say sex? somebody is thinking dirty over here!

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you said "free ride" and give a guy a "ride" multiple times. In my town, giving someone a ride=having sex with...
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I think there is one factor that you would take over all the rest, given that it was genuine.

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since you don't believe me, what factor do you think rises above the rest?</p>

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<p>Ah ha, that's a great question. However, I'm unable to give you a "free ride" on this one. Sorry babe.</p>

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<p>I find it interesting that simply being Brad Pitt automatically qualifies you for a "ride." ;)</p>

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<p>damn, being Brad Pitt qualifies you for anything you wanna do to/with me...</p>

<p>but, 311Griff, i think that you think you have me figured out. but you don't...</p>

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<p>oh boy...what's the world come to when all you have to do is be a celebrity or something like that to qualify for a free "ride"...man...all I can say is if you want me, you better deserve me...if I want you, I better be deserving of you...^_^ (I'm sorry, don't think I'm being arrogant...I just have strong feelings about this...to be honest, I've been single for 17 almost 18 years and I sort of wish I had somebody to be with. yes, i'm a little bit lonely...but...<em>starts singing</em> I Will Survive!)</p>

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oh boy...what's the world come to when all you have to do is be a celebrity or something like that to qualify for a free "ride

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hahahaha, but you have to keep in my mind that it is not just any celebrity, only Brad Pitt. I mean, let's get serious, I would never give Tom Cruise a free ride.</p>

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<ul>
<li>nice/kind?</li>
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<p>Yes.</p>

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<li>looks?</li>
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<p>I'm attracted to guys that other girls wouldn't necessarily find "hot". Currently, I like a brown-haired, brown-eyed skinny guy who occasionally sports nerdy-looking glasses. (And yes, I absolutely think that he's good-looking!)</p>

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<li>wealth?</li>
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<p>Unimportant.</p>

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<li>athletic abilities?</li>
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<p>I wouldn't like a couch potato, but that's more a question of motivation than anything else. I like a guy who shows respect for his body (takes care of himself) without falling into the trap of vanity.</p>

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<li>cool-ness?</li>
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<p>I don't even know how to answer this. If you mean popularity or reputation then no, I wouldn't care.</p>

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<li>style?</li>
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<p>Uh, I like geeky guys.</p>

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<li>intelligence?</li>
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<p>Yes.</p>

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<li>dominating?</li>
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<p>Confident, yes. Arrogant, no. Controlling? No way.</p>

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<li>comments:</li>
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<p>I'm never attracted to a guy based on appearance alone. Attitude, personality, sense of humor, and intelligence have to be there before I can even start evaluating a guy's looks. This is (a) why I rarely fall for guys and (b) why, when I do, I usually fall hard. I don't know if that makes me an anomaly.</p>

<p>For whatever it's worth, the way to get into my pants, should you want to, certainly isn't to be a jerk. I like sweet, considerate guys, but with a quiet sort of confidence and self-respect (letting people walk all over you is not self-respecting). Lastly, emotional stability is mandatory.</p>

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but, 311Griff, i think that you think you have me figured out. but you don't...

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<p>ofcourse I don't think that, I'd be a complete fool to think that. Sheesh, girl, are you seriously saying that after i read a few of your posts on CC that I'd figure you out? You're moving waaaaay too fast for me, wow!</p>

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<p>i meant, you think that you know what I want from a guy. For example, you think that:
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there is one factor that you would take over all the rest, given that it was genuine.

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and you don't believe that i look for a combination of traits in a guy. thus, you think you have my taste in guys figured out.</p>

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<p>How old are you hotpiece101?</p>

<p>(if you're a little too embarassed to reveal such personal information, feel free to message me) ;)</p>

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<p>311, I am 18. how old are you?</p>

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<p>Why do you want to know how old I am?</p>

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<p>311...I'd think that if you could ask hotpiece for her age she should be able to ask for yours...^_^</p>

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<p>Yeah, that's true, Aretsuya.... thanks for your input...I respect it, however, I never said she couldn't... I simply asked why? Ya know.</p>

<p>I'm just messing around with you hotpiece, I'm sure you know that.</p>

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<p>hmmm...interesting thread... though I cannot give my inputs since i m a Guy :)</p>

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<p>yeah, it is interesting...</p>

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<p>Yeah, hotpiece101 was trying to get me to talk about sex.</p>