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<p>Thank you for being so blunt and honest. =)</p>
<p>But yah, that's true both ways (for guys and girls). I mean you can't date someone who is vomitable.</p>
<p>I somewhat agree with the people who say girls need attention. We do. If we do not get enough attention we will promptly become crabby and possibly pick small fights just so we can get the attention (not always consciously) </p>
<p>However, one must know the where the thin line ends. I once liked a guy who was INCREDIBLYY sweet. Like honestly every 20 minutes there would be compliments, texts, promises to do whatever I would ever need and want. It was nice at first, but got old very soon. You feel like you're forced to drink sticky sweet syrup. Not a pleasant feeling.</p>
<p>So moral of the story-look for clues the girl is giving, if she's getting ****ed off at you frequently, give her some extra attention. Otherwise keep the attention to twice a week.</p>
<p>Oops, my reply was aimed:</p>
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wow this is so enlightening ._.
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<p>....buuut Feed posted before me. (Don't you mean "you wanna grind?")</p>
<p>And I'm going to be honest. I'm pretty athletic for a nerd, so I want the guys I date to be active, too. It's no fun when you feel like you can beat up your boyfriend (and not because he's afraid to punch you back).</p>
<p>**Essentially, everything boils down to value.
How much value does she place in you and
you in her? You have to demostrate value on
multiple levels to be appealing to anyone.</p>
<p>Wealth, looks, social status are all different
forms of value. Character traits also show value.
Being witty, being intelligent. It's not one particular
thing, but if you demonstrate value through
several means, then that will turn on what I like
to call "attraction switches." Turn on enough switches,
and no woman can resist you. For example, lets look
at how much value Brad Pitt has. Wealth, fame, social
status. He has it all in an extreme level, so his
value is off the roof.</p>
<p>You can prove you have value through actions, through
words, or through what friends say about you. If you
can master how to demonstrate value, then you can approach
any women under any logistics in any location, regardless
of their current relationship status/occupancy/age, and
build attraction.</p>
<p>email me at <a href="mailto:apexeffect@gmail.com">apexeffect@gmail.com</a> if you have more questions. :)</p>
<p>P.S. The whole "lets just be friends thing first" is such a myth.
Also, I wouldn't reccommend taking advice from women haha, rather,
taking advice from successful men because they excel at their craft.
These men are called Pick-up artists. And...buying women gifts,
being needy and groveling, doesn't work either. Well...unless that woman
is ugly and never been hit in before in her life. I'm referring to women of
beauty, ones who get hit on regularly.**</p>
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This seems to be true. There always seems to be at least one guy who is every girl's best friend. We have one person like this, and he's really close friends with everyone to the point that he seems to be a sweet brother or something, and no one ever sees him as boyfriend material.</p>
<p>I like guys that I can easily talk to</p>
<p>for me they have to be good at something too, have clear skin, and I'm not attracted to non-indian asians</p>
<p>-the part about non-indian asians is to say that not all girls are attracted to every race. I'm 3/8ths asian and for some reason I've always had a things for indians and red heads, but have never been attracted to a chinese boy. so if that's the reason it's the girl's fault, not yours</p>
<p>and don't make sexual comments to a girl if you're trying to go out with her. there's this one guy that is the sort that hangs out in town a lot and whenever I see him coming home on the train he always makes some sexual remark. he thinks that I think that he's charming and that it's cute, but I don't at all. I talked to him for about 5 minutes once at a concert because I was passing out flyers for a peace event and he hasn't left me alone since. It feels like he stalks me even though I know that he hangs out at the train station a lot. </p>
<p>Next time I see him I'm going to be like "GO HOME!!"</p>
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^^Really? How so?
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<p>I added a .<em>. which really means -</em>-</p>
<p>"And nothing, nothing can make up for physical attraction."</p>
<p>CC, wave goodbye to your chances...</p>
<p>(JK) :)</p>
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<p>Pffft, no.
I meant 'ground' because Grounding - Removal of electrons.</p>
<p>Does this make me a nerd? :(</p>
<p>You know what really turns me on?
When people like radronOmega dismiss my opinions on dating because I'm a woman.
Hot stuff.</p>
<p>outrageously sexy lookbeyond</p>
<p>Haha lookbeyond, I know what you mean.</p>
<p>But it's like that with any guy or girl, once you're a "best friend" then it's difficult to be seen as something else. First, the girl/guy might value the friendship and do not want to damage the friendship. Second, to be seen as more than a best friend requires the introduction of sexual interest, such as flirting, which in general may seem strange after a long friendship.</p>
<p>I think it is possible for a best friend to become the boyfriend/girlfriend. Guys may want to flirt a little more and display their masculinity while girls may may do the same in their own way.</p>
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and don't make sexual comments to a girl if you're trying to go out with her. there's this one guy that is the sort that hangs out in town a lot and whenever I see him coming home on the train he always makes some sexual remark. he thinks that I think that he's charming and that it's cute, but I don't at all. I talked to him for about 5 minutes once at a concert because I was passing out flyers for a peace event and he hasn't left me alone since. It feels like he stalks me even though I know that he hangs out at the train station a lot.
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<p>That is very true. It is very creepy when guys do this so DON'T be a creeper!! I was sitting in class one day and this guy saw me in the reflection of somebody's laptop and said "Hmmmm (catsushi) is wearing a low cut shirt..." I felt ashamed of myself and for the rest of the day felt like I was being ogled by all the guys. So keep the sexual comments at a minimum. Saying "you look nice today" is sweet, but saying "your body looks great in that short skirt" is just weird.</p>
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Wealth, looks, social status are all different
forms of value. Character traits also show value.
Being witty, being intelligent. It's not one particular
thing, but if you demonstrate value through
several means, then that will turn on what I like
to call "attraction switches." Turn on enough switches,
and no woman can resist you. For example, lets look
at how much value Brad Pitt has. Wealth, fame, social
status. He has it all in an extreme level, so his
value is off the roof.
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<p>If Brad Pitt were wearing rags, alone, in a cardboard box, on a street corner, girls would still want to get naked for him. His wealth, status, and fame come after the fact. What now?</p>
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You know what really turns me on?
When people like radronOmega dismiss my opinions on dating because I'm a woman.
Hot stuff.
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<p>How many straight females have you dated? That's right, newb.</p>
<p>I wonder what girls like MetdethGNR do to make their men feel special. Btw bringing cake/cookies on a random days is something a girls is more likely to. Girls have done it for me a few times and scones too.</p>
<p>Roses and clovers what race do you belong to ?</p>
<p>no, you know what we want is someone hotttttt (not necessarily goodlooking, but just someone we find extremely magnetizing and attractive)..like someone you die to stare in the hall each time you pass him by..someone that is talented and has actually something to talk about every single time.. cannot be dumb because that is so unattractive...oh yea he cannot be prettier than me!</p>
<p>I hate it when you have a lotta good ways to impress a girl, but she won't be impressed by them.</p>
<p>sciecenerd its usually vice versa. Girls dress up for guys they like, bake for them. Who's impressing who</p>
<p>i agree with lilian09..girls, myself included, like guys who we are physically attracted to. we want to find a nice hot guy that has some brains who we can show off =D lol</p>
<p>haha, e.leigh.mac, showing him off is definitely part of it!!!!!! at least it's been for me so far
i like the whole staring game in the halls at first</p>