<p>I'm trying to find, out if there is something girls really look for in a guy, that im not aware of.</p>
<p>So what are the top 3 things you look for in a guy?</p>
<p>if you have to ask youll never know.</p>
<p>(esp if that asking is on an internet chat site)
:)</p>
<p>So what are the top 3 things you look for in a guy?</p>
<p>The want something "big" from guys, if you know what I mean :)</p>
<p>sense of humor/interesting, a brain, and similar values. I'm just waiting to meet a guy who isn't a huge redneck...maybe a nice fellow vegetarian. Of course, I'd have to be attracted to him, or have chemistry. However you put it, plenty of guys who meet all the rational criteria just--don't interest me.</p>
<p>size isn't that important, Enjoi :p</p>
<p>This thread reminded me of something I got in an email: </p>
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<blockquote> <pre><code>Top Ten Things Guys Like About Girls: 1) The way they smile. 2) How they always smell so good. 3) How they laugh. 4) The way they take so long to get ready. 5) The way they dress. 6) How they put their make up on. 7) The way they say,"I love you." 8) How their little hands fit perfectly in the guys hands. 9) How guys can put their arms all the way around her waist. 10) Their sweet personality.
Top Ten Things Girls Like About Guys: 1) The way they try to act so tough. 2) How they write girls letters. 3) The way they smell. 4) How they feel so safe in their arms. 5) When they aren't afraid to admit things. 6) The way they say,"I love you.'' 7) The way they go shopping with you. 8) When they call you to make you feel better. 9) When they bring you something when your feeling down. 10) How they always seem to want to love you. </code></pre> </blockquote>
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<p>Aw. Isn't that cute. :)</p>
<p>LOL... it is cute!</p>
<p>For me, personal drive and initiative are very close to the top. Of course, a great smile and good fashion are nice but being motivated and being self aware are top. I don't really care if you're tall/short/big/small but you have to be conscientious about yourself but still have a ton of confidence. </p>
<p>... don't try too hard... but don't think us girls will be crawling at your feet either. That's really annoying.</p>
<p>a guy with confidence and it sure of what he was can get any girl i promise</p>
<p>So what are the top 3 things you look for in a guy?</p>
<p>*personality and morals/values that match mine
*intelligence and ambition with goals
*smile that brightens my day</p>
<p>looks don't really matter to me, and I think you can be physically "attracted" to someone without thinking they are "hot" =)</p>
<p>I love it when guys are sweet, funny, and isn't full of himself. But I hate it when guys think he's a big player and all the girls want him--eww. But I love it when a guy is himself and is really nice. YAY! ;)</p>
<p>I like when a guy has an interesting personality, is reasonably attractive and likes me for who I am. :)
And it helps if he's good in bed. :p</p>
<p>1) intelligence
2) personality
3) appearance</p>
<p>All three are important; I have no time to spare for stupid "hot" guys (of which there are all too many at my school).</p>
<p>Hmmm....</p>
<p>1.) Friendship. I want to be able to talk about anything wherever and goof around with him like buddies do. Like any friend, he has to make me laugh but be serious if needs be. </p>
<p>2.) Respect. He should have values and respect people, especially women. He should respect himself, too. He shouldn't get himself in trouble. He should have goals. </p>
<p>3.) Chemistry. We both should have mutual attraction for each other. He should look cute to me even if he isn't to anyone else and vice versa.</p>
<p>Private_Joker... I agree that respect is a BIG thing. I can't believe I didn't mention that. LOL!</p>
<p>Girls don't know what they want until they see it. Don't try to fit into each point on their "lists." Don't even look at those lists. Look away!</p>
<p>^So true. That's why I tried to make mine as general as possible. ;)</p>
<p>a guy who tries to pretend that he's a badass rebel <---- MAJOR PUT OFF
And when guys still seek for attention, when I have already said NO <--- Hate it.</p>
<p>I like it when guys who goes shopping with me, even if they hate it. but does it to make me feel happy.</p>
<p>And also when they hug me to make me feel protected</p>
<p>And guys that arn't so serious 24/7. Guys with a good sense of humor but not tooooo humorous..</p>
<p>And guys that smell good</p>
<p>Guys with a deep voice</p>
<p>Guys who like to talk about stuff I like to talk about.. eg. mysteries of the world. and guys who don't get bored when I talk lol.</p>
<p>Guys with a good sense of clothing - big blingbling g unit neckalces are a big put off.</p>
<p>three things I like in boys</p>
<p>confidence
creative talent (drawing, music, cooking... something awesome that affects others)
curly-ish hair and pretty eyes</p>
<p>as for put-offs... typical cheesy college dudes (the douches with popped collars and messanger bags) are pretty repelling.</p>
<p>Enjoi - I honestly have a shirt that says "Size DOES matter" I know, its horrible..
CynthiaR - send me some of those redneck boys!</p>
<p>anyways, top 3
1. funny and smart (but not as funny or as smart as me. just close)
2. metrosexual ... i figure if theyre metro they probably smell good, look good, dress good, and wax their whole body... and i love all of that)
3. wants me ...this is like, def the hardest one to fulfill.
(4. oh yeah, and Catholic. common faith is a big deal. well, not at the beginning, but then I have to convert them and thats work :) )</p>
<p>Aim78, I don't see these as "lists" with trivial criteria used to judge men, but general characteristics we seek in guys. I will never require a guy to be six feet, gorgeous with the body of god, and prince charming(although I wouldn't mind ;). There's no such thing as a perfect person, and one must accept another with all his faults and unexpected quirks. But, he should have a character that appeals to me, and that is what these lists encompass.</p>