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when it comes down to it, all they really care about is confidence and the overall image (looks).
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That's a generalization. I think I already covered this, but looks and image mean nothing without personality and intelligence. Unless I'm an anomaly?</p>
<p>Yeah, I agree with thisyearsgirl. A guy can be really handsome and all that stuff, but if you don't like the personality, then nothing can really be there. Like there really is no attraction.</p>
<p>I think a guy that knows how to make me laugh is attractive. But he also has to be smart, confident and caring too.</p>
<p>But its not the same for every girl.....I mean, there are girls that like jerks, but they're just attracted to the image. In the long run, the guy who is a jerk won't get anywhere in life.</p>
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In the long run, the guy who is a jerk won't get anywhere in life.
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<p>You'd be surprised.</p>
<p>On a completely different note, I think guys who cook for girls are sexy. I don't know why that turns me on, but I guess it's a variation of the usual 'wanting to be taken care of'. ;)</p>
<p>edit: And by that I mean, "guys who cook well", not someone who heats up mac and cheese and expects me to be grateful...but like gourmet meals and things. I suppose I'm just high-maintenance. :D</p>
<p>Yeah, that's not true at all. The jerk who can turn off his jerkiness when around the right people can go far in life. Until he dies, then he'll go straight to hell. But until then, smooth sailing.</p>
<p>lh0pitalrules -- I agree with you, I hate jerks.</p>
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And by that I mean, "guys who cook well"
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That is a trait that both men and women enjoy about their partners. Food is good.</p>
<p>I <3 food</p>
<p>From what girls have told me (I'm a guy), the best advice was just to "be yourself," and "be genuine."</p>
<p>"Be yourself" is such a hackneyed phrase. Everyone says be yourself. But seriously speaking how many of us really know who ourselves are? We play different roles in different parts of our life. If a person is fake by nature than that is what they are.. ingenuine. To say be yourself is a useless statement. But I think people say be yourself when it comes to getting girls because guys sometimes try to act all macho and cool and they end up looking dumb. </p>
<p>I think a better advice would be to "be what you see the perfect man being." The perfect man being the person a guy sees himself become as he grows up, including whatever characteristics, style, manner, etc.</p>
<p>Maybe I'm going off on a tangent here..</p>
<p>1) $$$$$$$$
2) fame
3) muscles.</p>
<p>jk. i dunno what i look for. hah.</p>
<p>a lot of $ is actually a turn off</p>
<p>so i guess i am not for u then lolll</p>
<p>wow ur so witty...haha</p>
<p>big pimpin is hot hot hottttt</p>
<p>well, i mean, not my money persay (but my dadd's DINERO), my dad does well, what you want me to do, like it or lump it as my mom says, its the family package lol :)</p>
<p>What girls say they want and what they really want are too different things. Just remember that.</p>
<p>I think confidence (but not unnecessary cockiness) signifies that you are comfortable with yourself and who you are. That is not a guarantee that every girl will like you, but a large percentage of girls looove confident guys. The biggest turnoff for me is guys who try to impress me by being macho/showing off in a very unsubtle way or saying things they think I want to hear - they don't realize that I can see through it immediately. Good social skills are also very important for me. I think the reason why a lot of girls like jerks is bc they are more agressive/confident or at least appear to be. h/e, there are much better ways to catch a girls attention than being a jerk. also-like others have said, he may be good looking but if there's nothing more there, it won't go anywhere. i was interested in this guy at first bc of his looks and he was a decent guy, but we didn't have anything to talk about and he couldn't hold up a good conversation. that was the end of my interest. that being said, the top qualities for me are</p>
<p>1) intelligence
2) confidence/charisma/presence/charm
3) personality/energy/sense of humor/open mindedness
4) physical appearance (more applied to the way he takes care of himself -i.e works out, dresses well, smells good, brushes hair/teeth, showers, etc. )</p>
<p>Ooh! Ooh! Now I remember! Now I've got it! I want a big ... thick ... wallet. ;) jk I can make my own money, thank you very much ...</p>
<p>cassiodorus. i think you're right...
no one really knows what they want...
thats why its so hard to find the right man </p>
<p>and heres the dirty little secret:
size does not matter...
its all in the technique</p>