What do you do when your student is failing and flailing?

My 17 year old niece has suffered with anxiety and depression for several years now and only this past summer was also diagnosed with anorexia. They tried an out patient eating disorder facility with not much success so she is now in an in-patient facility in another state. While HS seniors are submitting college apps and waiting for acceptances my niece is trying to get better mentally and emotionally. Her college plans are on hold- she is not in the mindset to submit any college apps at this time. Her parents visit her weekly. She is also on medication for anxiety. College can be stressful and many mental health issues surface around the late teens and early 20s. Take care of your daughter’s mental health. Get a full psychiatric or neuropsychological work-up to clarify diagnosis and figure out what medications may be needed. A leave of absence from college may be in order. Hugs to you and your family. Keep strong and follow through. Best of luck.