roycroftmom and I have agreed closely on a separate thread recently, and roycroftmom’s view is consistent with my spouse’s view (which I understand), so I am quite willing to agree to disagree.
The reason that I disagree, though, is that I don’t see it as just a question of being in a college with people whose views you oppose. One of my closest colleagues disagrees with me on the nature of the van der Waals dispersion force. I am right, :), but we get along fine.
In this particular case, it is a question not just of “being in a college with,” but rather “having the house headed by.” It also is not a question of Prof. Sullivan’s opinions–I have no idea of those, perhaps he just thinks that a few of the allegations against Mr. Weinstein are not supportable, but he shares others’ views on some of the remaining allegations–but rather it is a question of his actions.
All of the evidence that I have at hand suggests that some of the residents of the Harvard house are likely to be raped during their time at Harvard. This is a deeply traumatic experience, in my observation. There is vulnerability associated with being raped and with the aftermath, which has nothing to do with being “weak and dumb,” but has to do with a very personal reaction to a bad physical violation. So if one were telling the women to “man up” (ironic, right?) and take Prof. Sullivan’s class if it is on the planned curriculum, I would see that as one thing. But heading the residential location is different.
One of my faculty friends at Harvard has headed a house there–he is very genial, and organizes all sorts of events to entertain and relax the students, in addition to the standard “duties” of a Dean of one of the houses. It would be a quite different experience to have been in his Harvard house.
Eighteen-year-olds are adults, yes, but they are adults in transition to full independence, and relatively few of them have arrived.
Finally, while my university has nothing like houses, I would expect the largely not-so-privileged students here to react in the same way to the same set of circumstances. I don’t think the privilege of Harvard students really comes into this question.