<p>What would be your differing reactions for:</p>
<ul>
<li>He/she goes to the same school as you vs. a different school</li>
<li>He/she is the same gender as you vs. the different gender</li>
<li>He/she is the same year as you vs. a different year</li>
</ul>
<p>what about a friend request that says "i think you're pretty, wanna be friends?" I'm still not entirely sure how to react to that one, so i haven't touched it.</p>