<p>What I look for:
1. Looks
2. Similar political views
3. Geekiness (geeks can be hot)
4. Trustworthiness
5. Emotional stability (I can't stand insecure guys or guys who can't seem to keep their depression or anger in check)</p>
<p>I don't look for anything. It just sort of, um, happens.</p>
<p>That said, I think my list would probably look something like:</p>
<ol>
<li>Emotional stability</li>
<li>Personality (kindness, trustworthiness, etc)</li>
<li>Intelligence</li>
<li>Sense of humor</li>
<li>Looks</li>
</ol>
<p>well, if I like him, then he is physically attractive to me, as a given
he is intelligent and doesn't plagiarize his papers wi/out a second thought
athletic, or at least maintains physical fitness
has at least one talent that he nurtures
pet peeve--doesn't make me decide where to go/what to do on dates...if I wanted to tell him what to do, I would, but I usually don't, so don't ask me to do so</p>
<p>Oh, yeah. I forgot honesty. That's important.</p>
<p>In no particular order:
1. Good-looking
2. Sweet
3. Respectful
4. Doesn't do drugs/alcohol & Isn't a man wh0re
5. Outgoing
6. Mature enough
7. Trusworthy
8. Sense of humor</p>
<p>I always end up attracted to guys who are usually the opposite of me, which means they're probably shy, conservative, and very soft spoken. But I also appreciate any guy who is:</p>
<p>1.) Not lazy (I like active guys)
2.) Somewhat book-smart (guys with Es on their report cards don't impress me much)
3.) Excellent at giving hugs =]
4.) Clean (no drugs, no alcohol, no criminal record, ect. as well as showering daily and such)
5.) Nice to their sisters lol
6.) Taller than me</p>
<p>I love how we seem to be so much pickier than the guys :)</p>
<ol>
<li>Hyper-intelligence - I'm not kidding, he better be brilliant.</li>
<li>Charisma and personality in general; some degree of class</li>
<li>Maturity</li>
<li>Ambition/competitiveness</li>
<li>Similiar political views/interests/goals</li>
<li>Not lazy (that's a good one, supersonic), hygenic, takes care of himself physically</li>
<li>Stable</li>
</ol>
<p>Yeah, the guys' lists are basically...</p>
<ol>
<li>curves</li>
<li>curves</li>
<li>curves</li>
<li>curves</li>
<li>cup size</li>
</ol>
<p>Not that I'm bitter or anything... :rolleyes:</p>
<p>I agree, this years girl.
It's pretty sad what guys judge girls on these days. And pretty much the worst things a guy can say to a girl-you have saggy breasts, you have no curves.</p>
<p>wow^^ sorry, but that was funny!</p>
<p>guys are too superficial in high school...we just have to humor them until they grow beyond it a little :)</p>
<p>On a related note, I love how it's okay to say "god, skinny girls are so gross" but not "she'd be prettier if she lost weight". Double standard much?</p>
<p>ETA: That's something I've heard from guys and girls alike.</p>
<p>Funny... girls always seem to end up with *******s even though they say they want "sweet guys". I know plenty of guys who don't require curves/cuppage, yet they're still on the market. Hmmm, maybe it's time for girls to stop starving themselves and to stop running on the treadmill, dump their a-hole bf, and get one of these nice guys. Unfortunately, that would be too easy.</p>
<p>ohh my, yes!! and people wonder why some of us worry about weight so much...</p>
<p>where exactly are these "nice guys" of yours, runningcircles? And for the record, I don't consort wi/ the a-holes either bc I see them for what they are...</p>
<p>They're all over. You just have to notice them. Like, my poor friend Mark. Gets no respect.</p>
<p>awww...tell your poor friend mark to drop by muncie, indiana, then :p</p>
<p>
maybe it's time for girls to stop starving themselves and to stop running on the treadmill, dump their a-hole bf, and get one of these nice guys.
Not all skinny girls starve themselves, you know. I'm genetically thin, but I wouldn't mind being ten pounds heavier if it meant I could fill out a bra. :rolleyes:</p>
<p>I agree with you that nice guys are underrated, though... in fact I just fell for one. ::blush:: It's a shame that he seems to be a rare specimen 'round these parts.</p>
<p>what I look for in a guy:
1. looks
2. member size
3. personality</p>
<p>but seriously:
1. personality
2. intelligence
3. looks</p>
<p>Then, I applaud you thisyearsgirl :)</p>
<p>I know not ALL girls are skinny through starvation. I'm just talking about the ones that kill themselves to impress their boyfriends. Like, hello?! If he loved you, you wouldn't have to!</p>
<p>Yes, I agree with that, absolutely.</p>
<p>Ice cream is goooood...</p>