<p>ask him out. just do it. the guy likes you and is worried that he blew his chance with you.</p>
<p>bump? I’m bored.</p>
<p>such a cute story. <3</p>
<p>Do not ask him in an upfront manner.
Try to communicate with him first, and improve your relationship first.
Maybe you can text him casually and ask something connected to those classes.
If he replies, text him again about other things.
It doesn’t require direct eye-to-eye. :)</p>
<p>have a threesome</p>
<p>He thinks he’s been rejected and/or friend zoned, so he’s now responding with reaction formation. Be direct and forward, but not overly so. Just make it really, really blatantly obvious for him, but not in a manner which could be potentially embarrassing for you should he choose to reject you outright.</p>
<p>I feel like I have to talk to him in person now. We talked so much over texting and then it was awkward in person… I don’t want that to happen again.</p>
<p>Millancad: Do you have any example of how I could be direct and make it blatantly obvious while not making it embarassing for me? :] I’m not quite sure how I’d do that.</p>
<p>^Ehhhh, hmm :). It seems so easy when one’s doing it, yet remains difficult to describe. It’s simpler when you’re alone, to avoid the whole embarrassment bit, but such solitary situations sometimes have to be concocted out of forgotten keys, or being the last ones to leave at a party.
Act in a manner which betrays your emotions but don’t be desperate. I suppose that’s what I mean. Need him, but not in an effete or weak manner; rather, seek out his company rather than that of others and be open in your manner of conversation. Other opportunities to obviate a middle-school type confession but still achieve the same effect will show themselves as a result of this behavior.</p>
<p>Haha, well keys wouldn’t work considering I’m not even 16 yet:] Plus, I don’t party much at all. I’ll figure something out… Thanks!</p>
<p>From what I wrote, do you think that he ever had feelings for me or was it all in my head?</p>
<p>Thanks for all of your replies… I have a couple of questions:
- From what I wrote, do you think that he definitely liked me?
- Do you think that he still likes me?
I want to tell him how I feel - so badly - but the thing is, if he shoots me down, my classes will be so awkward. I’m in 2 classes with him as I said. In one, we sit next to each other. For the next 2 years, we’re bound to be in other classes together. It’d be embarrassing for me to know that he knows I like him and he doesn’t like me. This is why I’m terrified to say anything. </p>
<p>His birthday is in about 2 weeks. I’m thinking of telling him then… what do you think? What should I say?</p>
<p>he likes you. he still wants to talk to you.</p>
<p>u must boost his confidence if u want him too.</p>
<p>I came across this and just wondered…what happened in the end? or rather…how are you two now?</p>
<p>Eiswein: Nothing at all has happened… :/</p>
<p>we need cliff notes on that post!! it’s too long</p>
<p>Hahah, I’m sorry.
Basically, I met a boy who was in 2 of my classes. Over break, he started texting me. I’m 98% positive that he liked me a lot. He stopped texting me. Things were very awkward at school. And I still like him, or the thought of him at least.</p>
<p>text him back.</p>
<p>if he doesn’t reply either:</p>
<p>1) show him some tough love and tell him you WON’T take that kind of **** from him</p>
<p>2) wait</p>
<p>3) lose him!</p>
<p>Wellll we haven’t had a conversation since January 
even though we sat next to each other in 1 class. I’ve been waiting for months.</p>
<p>Why am I not surprised? My predictions stand correct.</p>
<p>Sorry, what predictions?</p>
<p>He thinks he is being friend-zoned. Have you asked this guy out yet? We are on the 3rd page lol and everyone is saying just around the same thing and giving you just about the same advice. figure it out. =b</p>
<p>Platts, I thought the same. </p>
<p>The only funny part of this was:</p>
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<p>poor Whan/Wham =D</p>
<p>TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM-It should work out but if it doesn’t…oh well. Rejection is a part of life.</p>
<p>Lmao. Sorry, Whan.</p>
<p>Alright, I’m trying desperately to convince my cowardly self to go for it. BTW - is there a difference between BBMing and texting him?</p>