<p>"One day two of my friends pulled me aside and said that I should ask someone out. I don't know if my girlfriend sent them (they were mutual friends), but it sounds like a good idea."</p>
<p>Wait, what? You have a girlfriend and she sent two of her friends to tell you to ask someone else out? That's messed up.</p>
<p>just browsing- it's a scientifically known fact that the eyes are the #1 key to the turnout of all human relationships (or something to that effect). couples in love share eye contact when talking 70% of the time, while in a normal conversation, eye contact is held only 30% of the time. girls LOOVE eye tricks! strong eye contact can make you shaky. is the girl who likes you someone who has strong eye contact with everyone, or just you? if it's the latter, she def. likes you!</p>
<p>maybe i should clarify..... i was single at the time and that's what led us to become a couple. the girl in question was my current girlfriend</p>
<p>If you like someone, just tell them. If you like someone just a friend, tell them. Honesty is the best way, seriously. Subtle messages and hints may work (or not), but they are a real pain. Why spend so much effort trying to tell someone you like them by for example hugging them differently, or gazing into their eyes, or whatever, when you could just TELL them? It saves a whole lot of agonizing over "did he understand what I meant?" and things like that.</p>
<p>guys dont understand hints or clues, and even if we did we rarely have the sack to act on it for fear of rejection... so just tell him</p>
<p>to the other problem... talk about other guys you like in front of him, and hell get it...</p>
<p>From a straight guy, let me just say this.</p>
<p>Hints=bad. We don't understand them very well/we think you just might be flirting. Just be straightforward, really that's the best solution.</p>