What if someone not so smart keeps bugging me to help them?

<p>I gave this person my phone number and we're in the same Chemistry class. And it's a really hard class and Im barely getting by by studying and she is worse off than me because she doesnt read the book and wastes a lot of time socializing. She sometimes texts me if I want to meet and work on homework together and stuff. A lot of the time I already finished the homework. What to do?</p>

<p>Just ignore the text?
Or tell her to get a tutor?</p>

<p>Say you can’t, you’re busy.</p>

<p>if she is hot…
but most likely just ignore her, unless she is a friend in which it gets more complicated</p>

<p>Tell her that you’ve already finished the assignments/studying and you’re too busy, but suggest other places she can go. For example, tell her when the TA’s and the prof’s office hours are; if your school has a tutoring center for chemistry, recommend that to her; if you know of any other people studying for the same class, suggest that she try to hook up with them, etc.</p>

<p>But it might not be a bad thing to work with her once in a while. Sometimes, even if you’ve already finished the homework, explaining the material to someone else can reinforce your understanding of it. Helping her might actually benefit both of you. Since you said yourself that you’re barely getting by by studying, maybe try helping her and see if that helps you.</p>

<p>Really depends on her hotness. </p>

<p>If she passes the threshold, definitely respond. If not, just ignore her to pave the way for a very neutral relationship.</p>

<p>hi im from london , england. theres a guy in college who is always asking me for help. he the kind of guy who like to have a joke. but his problem when it comes to work he cant think for himself. always asking me on the sly to email him work. but now it has reached the point where i am avoiding him and getting on with the work on my own in quiet place. but this guy doesnt get the hint man. im doing a ITQ NVQ LEVEL 3. ITS DIFFICULT TO SOME PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS ON A HIGH LEVEL BUT ITS RELATIVELY EASY FOR ME. THIS GUY NEEDS NINTENDO BRAIN TRAINING PROGRAM</p>

<p>Sometimes you people just need to be more honest and upfront about what you want. Why are you hiding and avoiding him, STUDYgoblin? Just tell him you would rather work alone.</p>

<p>Orange Peel, you should tell her that you already finished the assignment. If you want to study with her, suggest you meet earlier next time. If you don’t, then don’t suggest hanging out. Just be honest; don’t ignore her texts and don’t avoid her. Although siemprecuriosa is right imo… Oftentimes repeating and explaining something to someone can really help you out, too.</p>

<p>Quit being passive aggressive and get things done!</p>