<p>I don't know anyone at school besides my roommates, who I just met so I don't know them very well. They invite me out and stuff but I want to get invited to parties and things like that. But I'm shy and have a really hard time just striking up conversations with strangers unless I'm drunk. So how can I get invited to parties easily? I'm a girl by the way, everyone says its easier for girls to get invited to parties but I haven't yet and I live right next to two frats!</p>
<p>Since you’re a girl, just walk into a party. Try and get a roommate to go with you or try and blend in with another group of girls going into the party.</p>
<p>If you go alone don’t be surprised if you wake up in someone elses bad though lol.</p>
<p>Haha, I’ll try to stay out of strangers beds then. I just don’t know where to go, you know? I don’t want to just walk around looking for parties, and even if I found one if I walked in no one would know me! My roommates don’t really go to parties, just bars or clubs. So any tips talking to guys there? I mostly have trouble talking to guys.</p>
<p>^ dont stutter and look pretty</p>
<p>chances are they will be way more nervous than you</p>
<p>I just don’t know what to talk about! I think I’m pretty I just never know what to say and i’m worried I’ll come off as boring or something. I don’t really think they’re nervous, at the bar the other night I had a few guys talk to me and they didn’t seem nervous and I’m guessing they were just trying to get me to go home with them. So I’d like to be able to talk to guys who are not just interested in that.</p>
<p>im not very qualified to speak on this subject honestly<br>
but i will tell you just about every guy is looking to score when they go out in college </p>
<p>doesnt mean you cant flirt and have a fun time then politely decline them when they want more</p>
<p>A girl can probably give you tips on how to talk to guys, but I can give you tips on how not to act.</p>
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<p>That’s what I’ll do next time. I was just overwhelmed the other night because I’d never been to a bar and had guys talk to me like that, so it was a bit weird. Still, I have no idea how to get invited to parties! None of the people in my classes have been talking about them or anything or even really been talking at all, so I can’t talk to people in classes or anything.</p>
<p>lol, I would never act like that! But I feel way too weird asking girls or just anyone in person for tips talking to guys.</p>
<p>Just ask around. If you run into some new acquaintances, ask them if anything’s going on this weekend. If they mention a party, ask to go with them and maybe invite them over to “pre-game” a little so you can loosen up before you even get there. Remember to take it easy though. A lot of new freshmen get to school and immediately go ham, which can lead to some terrible decisions and people generally looking like fools.</p>
<p>Fastest way? Acquaint yourself with those known for partying a lot and drinking. A girl on my floor for example drinks alcohol in her room and will basically take any one with her to the parties she goes to.</p>