<p>Jerseymom:</p>
<p>Besides the issue with roomie, there is not much else to go on in your post. </p>
<p>Why does your S “hate” his classes? What does he specifically not like about the coursework/curuculum? </p>
<p>You say he can “make no friends” but then mention that he has friends on upper. (And btw, it makes no difference where legacies are housed – some end up on Newtwon as well.) Are all his “friends” drinkers (start partying on Thursday afternoon) and he is not?</p>
<p>Is your S more a book-type, and not much interested in big-time sports?</p>
<p>You mention only child and all-male school. Is your S having issues with coed dorms? Is he just homesick? (Quite common in first few months, particularly for an only-child.)</p>
<p>What is his major interest?</p>