Circuitrider–I gotta agree with Sue22. My D went to Wes; I love everything about it, and the many Wesleyan students I’ve met over the years have continually impressed me. I’m heartbroken that the actions of the few may color how people see this school, which was absolutely lifechanging for my D.
But your in-your-face defense is just making it look bad. there are all sorts of ways to speak out about it without going into attack mode.