<p>sometimes i think i have turned into such a nerd... I just got asked by two of the best looking girls to hang out in the hot tub all night, and I turned it down! I never would have imagined doing something like this. I also have not gone on dates with anyone this summer yet, something that is unherd of for me. Plus I dont flirt as much as I used to with anyone. It just seems like that all I care about anymore is school and some of my really close friends. I have began to alienate people as well, it just seems that I am becoming incredibly lame. I know there are some people on this site that post about being nervous aproaching members of the opposite sex, but ive just never been like that. Ive always been into and active with girls. Is there something wrong with me? Im starting to wonder if collegeconfidential and my classes with overachievers is changing my entire outlook on my social life. Sorry for the rant, but I had to get it out.</p>
<p>I don't understand why doing well in school is associated with you're newfound social awkwardness. Maybe you just need to chill out a little...unwind. It's something a lot of us need to do. Take a break from whatever life you have, even if it's for a few minutes. When I mean take a break, just do whatever you need to do. Your sanity will thank you, and who knows, maybe you can start getting in hot tubs again.</p>
<p>yeah i know its stupid. Sorry.</p>
<p>It's not that stupid. We all go through this crap. Buck up young blood, things will get better for you.</p>