what is my chance with her?

<p>What chemistry could there possibly be if you've never even had an extended conversation with her? You're willingly ignoring the question of why she's attracted to you at all, either because it strokes your ego to think that it's because you're some amazing guy but if you actually think about it you've GOT to realize that that isn't it. </p>

<p>"most girls can be conquered."</p>

<p>Conquered. Conquered. You just used the word conquered (after using a race metaphor earlier) in regards to this and all girls. If you don't understand how this makes you look like an ass then I'm sorry, theres nothing I or anyone here can say that is going to help you. Go ahead and send her some crappy message on facebook and make some hilarious attempt to hook up with her. But if you've actually thought about the situation I don't see how you can see a single plausible outcome where anyone is happy in the end, unless of course you're just going for sex in which case you'll be happy, though at the expense of everyone else involved in the story.</p>

<p>intent to conquer = deal-breaker in my book</p>

<p>"What chemistry could there possibly be if you've never even had an extended conversation with her? "</p>

<p>Pure physical attraction. Not saying I'm that great but at least in her eyes I am.</p>

<p>"You're willingly ignoring the question of why she's attracted to you at all, either because it strokes your ego to think that it's because you're some amazing guy but if you actually think about it you've GOT to realize that that isn't it. "</p>

<p>So I guess she peeked at me all those time and would quickly look away when I look up because there was a sticker on my head. She also awkwardly tried to start a conversation with me once by complimenting me because she just had to say something to a person she doesn't know. All those things she wrote in her blogs are just my imagination. In fact, you might as well say all those things never occured and I'm just making up a scenario to waste time on this forum.</p>

<p>Pure physical attraction isn't chemistry, it's hornyness.</p>

<p>"So I guess peeked at me all those time and would quickly look away when I look up because there was a sticker on my head. She also awkwardly tried to start a conversation with me once by complimenting me because she just had to say something to a person she doesn't know. All those things she wrote in her blogs are just my imagination."</p>

<p>She's socially awkward. Nobody is arguing that. And I'm not even trying to convince you that she's not attracted to you anymore (or at least not more attracted to you than she is to her CURRENT BOYFRIEND) I'm just trying to get you to think about why she might be attracted to you. Pure physical attraction doesn't make normal people go that crazy over someone. And neither do awkward glances at you. She is unstable. But go ahead, do whatever it is you're going to do and make sure to post the results.</p>

<p>Alright, end of the discussion.</p>

<p>Thanks for all those who contributed. I'll just move on and find someone else.</p>

<p>Wait, you're listening to us? If you've actually accepted that she's a bit off to still like you that much after all this time then kudos and good luck in the future.</p>

<p>Reach, dude. You should find some safeties.</p>

<p>God! This entire thread is hilarious! Kudos to Chuy and Leah. At least there are others on here with some higher level cognitive ability. I really don't understand what goes through some guys heads. They think that ALL WOMEN can't help but to be obsessed with them. I place these men in the same category as the men who think "No means Yes".</p>

<p>You think we're good you should've seen Easy. He put me to shame.</p>

<p>no offense, but this girl sounds like a weirdo. Yeah, we've all had our schoolgirl crushes on the cute boy in class, but to obsess about it for years later and write about her obsession with you on an internet blog and compare you two to a romantic movie even though you barely interracted? sounds like a sketchball.</p>

<p>if all you're looking for is to hook up because you think she's hot now, and she wants to hook up as well, then go for it. just don't lead her on and make her think it's anything more, because that's just cruel. if she wants to throw away her relationship with her bf to hook up with you, her choice to make. but as for a relationship - i'd be nervous to be with a girl like that!</p>

<p>Methinks that the OP and girl in question need some maturing to do.</p>