<p>Glad to see some activity on this thread, and I like the thoughtfulness of the last couple of posts. </p>
<p>After finding that all the college websites looked the same, and that we couldn’t get a detailed description of what anyone means by “a rigorous education” (do we mean lots of homework? really difficult classes? highly selective student body, who, we hope, does not feel a sense of entitlement after being so rigorously selected), our family started asking “what’s the secret sauce”. </p>
<p>One of the stand-out answers, from a fellow parent on CC, was something like “the college is committed to its students, and the students are committed to learning”. </p>
<p>That could cover a number of issues. The professors are available in office hours, and want the student to succeed. The school makes a huge effort to see that the classes you need are available when you need them. There might be a quiet dorm, or dorms, for the students who really want to study. Greek life, if it’s there at all, does not end up on the front page of the newspapers. The school does not bow down before its D1 Football team. You can guess that I’m a bill paying parent by this list, but the college student in our house had a hand in writing it. </p>
<p>I like the focus on strength in the intended major - if you know what you want to major in, by all means, don’t compromise just to get a “better” (or more expensive) label. </p>
<p>If you don’t know what you want to major in yet, that’s a choice too - and there are schools that are more or less flexible for those who change their mind. </p>
<p>Finally, the post-college benefits - aka the alumni network. You may find that the alumni of a smaller, less well known college may be more open to helping a fellow alum than the alumni of a larger brand name college. No promises either way, but my own experience is that the alumni who feel that they are part of a team are going to be the ones who put themselves out to help. </p>
<p>Full disclosure - these are comments from the background of a humanities major - raised for flexibility. I have a couple of family members who were science majors - and their experience says that the brand matters - but the brand that matters for a science career isn’t always the Ivy league - so pick your brand carefully, if that’s the way you feel you should go.</p>