What is up with him??

<p>OK, so there's this guy in one of my classes who I'm pretty sure was into me at the start of the semester. I really like him too. We flirted together quite a bit and things were going well. He would always be really excited to see me, always come over to talk to me, we'd hang out at parties, etc. Then, all of a sudden he started acting weird and guilty around me for a couple of days, and then I noticed that the "spark" was gone. He was just plain nice to me for a few days, and then stopped talking to me at all. Now, its like I don't even exist. I'll see him and I know he'll see me, but he won't even acknowledge my presence. What's going on??</p>

<p>He's not interested. Move on.</p>

<p>He's a boy...that's what's wrong. </p>

<p>In all seriousness, though, don't pay attention to me...I'm just pouting about my own confusing boy situation...although there's a chance that it may only be confusing because I've been in a horrible mood all week (finals week). Meh, point is that I'm sulky, whiney, and very unreliable...and apparently feel like spreading the misery a bit.</p>

<p>He's not interested? Seriously? But I still really like him!!</p>

<p>lol..I was in a similar situation. We had sparks but then the girl just started to ignore, not returning my calls, not saying hi and stuff. But recently she waved at me but I ignored her. Whichh I think serves her right.</p>

<p>If he's made the first move in everything, meaning he always comes over to you, he always calls you, he always plans events, etc., he may feel that it's a one-way relationship and feel like you're not reciprocating the same level of interest.</p>

<p>No, but I definitely did stuff too. I think.
I invited him to a party, I'd send him facebook messages, and sometimes I'd approach him too. I feel like it was working both ways.</p>

<p>I still don't get how to tell if someone's actually interested in the first place. I just can never tell for myself...it's poopy.</p>

<p>Your girls are sometime missing the obvious. He obviously heard some rumor about your sexual prowess (not the kind he'd tell his mom about.) If you have enemy or a fellow rival who wants his attention too, then that could happen. But who really knows why man do the thing we do.</p>

<p>Talk to him? It's not that hard, just Facebook message him "What's up, you haven't been talking to me much lately" or something to that effect</p>

<p>Well you did all that stuff and he's not returning the favor, move on. What the f(u)ck is wrong with all you people?</p>

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<p>Final exams and cramps :(</p>

<p>lol</p>

<p>Maybe he's just snubbing you. I sometimes snub girls I like and just don't approach them, don't talk to them. Sometimes it can be successful.</p>

<p>yah, but this has been continuing for a while now. And its incredibly frustrating! It's really <strong><em>ing me off. What is wrong with him? How can he just change how he acts towards me so *</em></strong><em>ing drastically? I'm really *</em>*ed off here.</p>

<p>Hahahaha, that's what I do too. I can completely act different to girls. Just give him a holla on facebook or something meet him and tell him how you feel. That is what I would want a girl to do to me. He probably just doesn't want to take the iniative, or perhaps just doesn't like you. If you just do that then you'll have the peace of mind. You'll get a date with the guy or think he's an ******* not worth your time :)</p>

<p>"He's not interested? Seriously? But I still really like him!!"</p>

<p>Irrelevant. Move on.</p>

<p>If things are awkward, he doesn't like you.</p>

<p>Question: Did you hook up (define however you want) with him? If so, perhaps there is a chance for you. If not, he's not interested, move on.</p>

<p>all girls should read the book
He's Just Not that Into You!!!!</p>

<p>do you want a guy who plays games, if that is what he is doing...too much bother</p>

<p>I think I have the answer. </p>

<p>Possibly he realized you actually liked him, and all he wanted was frienship, or he was gay? Honestly, maybe this creeped him and now he is avoiding you. Maybe he is gay, if he was that friendly but you never hooked up with him. </p>

<p>I have been on other end of the situation. I am not gay, but it's a really annoying feeling when someone likes you and you do not like them.</p>

<p>OK, update:
He was totally watching me all of yesterday, and I kept ignoring him and avoided eye contact. Today, he did the same thing. I ignored him again. But then the second I looked over at him for a split second, he came over to me and started a conversation. What the f u c k??</p>

<p>Can you please man up and tell him that you're not interested? There's no reason to get all riled up.</p>