<p>This is a really good question. For us and my daughter (now taking her gap year but headed to MIT in the Fall of 2014) the answer came down to the following, although I would emphasize that I am speaking here as a parent and not for my daughter (who shared these concerns but to a lesser extent). </p>
<p>(1) Pressure and stress at MIT; and
(2) Many fewer humanities offerings and humanities students.</p>
<p>Obviously our daughter resolved any concerns in favor of attending MIT. She’s thrilled to have been accepted. We think it is going to be a fantastic place for her. But as others have said, MIT is very different from other schools and it is clearly not for everyone. So for others thinking through these issues, here are some thoughts and resources:</p>
<p>(1) Stress and pressure. This has been referred to in passing above, but it deserves more prominence, given that MIT students will cheerfully tell prospective students and parents that the unofficial motto of MIT is “IHTFP” which they say can mean on alternate days “I Have Truly Found Paradise” or “I Hate This F*****g Place”. </p>
<p>It is terrific that the MIT admissions office is so open about and unthreatened by people raising this concern, including maintaining on its own website the much read, admired and commented upon essay by Lydia K (“Meltdown”):<br>
[Meltdown</a> | MIT Admissions](<a href=“http://www.mitadmissions.org/blogs/entry/meltdown]Meltdown”>Meltdown | MIT Admissions)</p>
<p>There are many wonderful, helpful blog posts on the Admissions site. I just encourage prospective students and parents to include Lydia’s essay among the ones you read to round out your perspective. I also found it invaluable to read the December 7, 2012 issue of the MIT student newspaper (The Tech) that Lydia’s essay helped inspire discussing pressure at MIT in depth:
<a href=“http://tech.mit.edu/V132/PDF/N59.pdf[/url]”>http://tech.mit.edu/V132/PDF/N59.pdf</a></p>
<p>For a parent the most troubling statistic cited in The Tech is not about the lack of sleep. It is that the self-confidence of MIT students reportedly tends to fall during their first few years at MIT (but rebounds later). In my conversations with the MIT leadership on campus I was extremely impressed with how seriously they take this issue and how hard they are working to build a supportive rather than “Who’s more hosed?” atmosphere. But it gives a parent pause.</p>
<p>I think this is a particular concern for students who attended relatively small schools and did very well, but are perhaps not used to an academic pressure-cooker environment. As one student described her first year at MIT when I met her at College Preview Weekend (CPW), “It was a supported slap in the face. They slapped me across the face, but they held my hand while doing it.” She loved MIT – but that kind of experience isn’t for everyone.</p>
<p>Again, it is admirable that MIT takes very concrete steps to give students time to adjust – most notably with the pass/no credit system for the first year. </p>
<p>(2) Many fewer humanities offerings and humanities students.</p>
<p>For people considering both MIT and other top schools like Univ. of Michigan it can be a shock to realize how big the gap is between them and MIT in terms of humanities offerings. I was stunned to be told during CPW that there were two History majors at MIT. Not two majors studying European History or two per class. Two. I raised this concern on College Confidential in a thread called “What if interests change? Liberal arts at MIT” and got some great advice and information including this link to the statistics for departmental majors at MIT: Web.mit.edu/registrar/stats/trots/index.html
For 2011-12 here are some of the statistics: Literature – 2 majors, Music and Theater – 2, Writing – 3.</p>
<p>It was argued at CPW that humanities majors get a lot of faculty attention. No doubt. It was also pointed out on the previous thread that many, many people at MIT are interested in History and other humanities subjects even if they don’t major in them and that some MIT humanities departments are among the best in the country, including Economics and Linguistics. It was also pointed out that you can cross-register for any class at Harvard. This clearly does happen at least for language classes which are pretty limited at MIT.</p>
<p>But at the end of the day, MIT is not Michigan with a great engineering program but also fantastic humanities with lots of majors in every conceivable field. And Michigan is not MIT with its more intimate campus, smaller classes, better faculty student ratio, et cetera.</p>
<p>Visit and Decide for Yourself – The last thing I would say is that I think it is very important for prospective students to visit MIT. We knew almost nothing about the school and almost didn’t visit. But when we did we almost immediately fell in love with the school. We really came to believe what MIT says about the “fit” at MIT: [The</a> Match Between You And MIT | MIT Admissions](<a href=“http://mitadmissions.org/apply/process/match]The”>What we look for | MIT Admissions). In the end our daughter chose MIT (I think) because she felt at home there.</p>
<p>So go visit and see if you feel that way too.</p>