<p>so i was sitting in a cafe last night and overheard this guy telling his friend that "he wouldn't tap that" because "who knows whats been in it"..in reference to me. mind you i wasnt dressed slutty at all. what do you think people make such an assumption based of?</p>
<p>Not enough information provided to tell.</p>
<p>I’ll feed your ego: it probably means that you are beautiful.</p>
<p>I see two possibilities:</p>
<p>One, you look good and he just assumed so because it’s more likely that good looking girls have had a lot of experience,</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>two, he was just making an excuse so he didn’t have to go talk to you to avoid looking like a punk in front of his friend because he was scared.</p>
<p>did you go confront them?</p>
<p>he was with a female friend and i heard him saying that i look familar and when she said he should go talk to me that was his response.</p>
<p>*** is wrong with ppl these days.</p>
<p>Yeah, he was probably trying to get with the female ‘friend’ he was with and wanted to look big in front of her.</p>
<p>the thread title question should have been more specific - “what makes you assume a girl is a slut?” because let’s face it, you won’t hear anyone calling a guy a slut.</p>
<p>a man-whore? maybe. just maybe.</p>
<p>take it as a good thing tho. it probably means you’re hot. either that or you look skanky. don’t judge yourself because of course you’re going to think that you dress fine. ask a friend or something if need be to judge the way you dress and whether it’s ‘slutty’ or not.</p>
<p>i was wearing my sorority logo wifebeater and sweats… i woudln’t consider that too skanky</p>
<p>maybe it’s the way you look? maybe the association the guy may have made with the sorority logo? maybe his definition of slutty is very different than what most would consider slutty? maybe he’s just not man enough to talk to you? maybe he just wanted to insult you and drive you crazy enough to ask a forum?</p>
<p>it’s really hard to tell. don’t take it personal. the guy doesn’t know you. if you aren’t a slut, then that’s all that should matter.</p>
<p>Congratulations. You’re hot.</p>
<p>why are you even putting importance to this? the people you want in your life shouldn’t be people who see you as a person they would want to lay, like why is this even bothering you. </p>
<p>if you honestly knew, girls always have the upper hand, regardless if they’re sluts or not. in the real world, outside of high school and college, a guy getting or scoring a girl will not come easy to them, because they’re no longer around naive women who put importance to what guys think of them, let a lone some other college/high school student.</p>
<p>I understand why you are worried about this. You want to make sure that everyone doens’t think you are, but you still shouldn’t loose sleep over this.</p>
<p>He might think you are one because of the sorority you are in. It might just be because you are in a sorority. It might be because you did something one night or maybe someone with your first name did and he just assumes it was you. But I think the best possibilities have already been said. Don’t worry about it too much.</p>
<p>I’ll go against the grain here and disagree that good looks makes someone look like a slut. Actually the opposite… the uglier girls get attention from guys by being easy and sleeping with them.</p>
<p>However, I don’t really make those kind of judgments unless I have something substantial to work with… I don’t judge people by their appearance, but revealing clothing definitely doesn’t help anyone’s case.</p>
<p>welll… maybe he does know someone who looks like you and she’s slutty. or because he thinks sorority girls are slutty.</p>
<p>You’re out of his league.</p>
<p>Or maybe… Just maybe? He’s an idiot?</p>
<p>That’s good enough for me?</p>
<p>The guy is a loser, period. However good looking banana girl is, that is not the reason make such accusations. If someone had made this remark to the girl he was speaking to or his sis, what would hv been his reaction?
Banana girl, u must have been shocked and probably wanted to slap him there. Congratulations on being the better person and not losing your cool.</p>
<p>Don’t mind that guy. I personally think he was trying to get with his female friend and wanted to act big, as someone else put it. He probably and unwarrantably assumes that all sorority girls are “sluts.” Guys judge girls all the time, often very cruelly and rather hypocritically.</p>
<p>we need pics</p>