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<h2>How much will your family pay?</h2>
<p>I asked my mother about it, and she said that it was complicated.*</p>
<p>Sit down and tell your mom that:</p>
<p>1) You need to know because your choice of schools to apply to depends on this info.</p>
<p>2) Schools may expect the family to pay more than it can.</p>
<p>3) If your family can’t pay much, and isn’t low income, then you’re going to have to apply to schools where you’d get a near free ride/free ride.</p>
<p>4) The app process is time consuming and expensive, so you can’t waste time/money on schools that won’t be affordable.</p>
<p>5) YOU, the student, can only borrow $5500 for frosh year. Your mom may not know that and may think that you can borrow as much as you need. You can’t. </p>
<p>6) If your parents want you to borrow more than 5500 then THEY would have to qualify and co-sign those loans and THEY would be responsible if you couldn’t pay those loans back. If your parents have any credit issues, then they won’t qualify. Extra private loans aren’t a good idea anyway.</p>
<p>Is your family low income?</p>
<p>are your parents divorced? Anyone remarried?</p>
<p>Do your parents have a good income, but lots of bills?</p>
<p>Why are you restricting to Calif? Calif isn’t always the best place for college if you need merit scholarships for engineering. </p>
<p>If your mom still is vague, then you really have to assume that she can’t pay much. So, then you need to include schools that will give you HUGE merit scholarships for your stats. And, I mean HUGE. “Good scholarships” won’t be enough because they’ll leave you with too much uncovered costs.</p>
<p>YOU can only borrow $5500</p>
<p>With your stats, there are good schools with engineering that would give you free tuition or more. </p>
<p>Sit down with your parents and talk to them. Let them know that if they can’t pay or can’t pay much, you need to know that now. Delaying the “bad news” will only hurt you in the long run.</p>
<p>BTW…what is your career goal? AeroE is rather limiting. The same companies that hire AeroE will also hire EE and MechE…and those degrees are more marketable.</p>