<p>I think you are a pretty solid candidate for UVA and William and Mary - those are the two state schools that come to mind as a good match for you after reading your profile. You might also look at U of Richmond, as a private you could be eligible for merit aid. Since instate is preferred by your parents, you would need to look at out of state privates where you would have a shot at merit aid that will get the private costs down to near what public costs would be for you. </p>