A lot of parents here are trying to set up op for failure.
Sharp tongues and quick wit are good in the right scenario.
@Much2learn I agree with you.
And people, it is not always about race!
Yes he said something off-colored, is he actually someone who thinks less of whites? We don’t know, but probably not.
He was saying things just to say them, she was merely an object or entity present for him to use.
If she humanizes herself to him and makes their relationship personal by even just saying hi to him and calling him by his name…well I’m sure that will stop it.