DH and I both retired over this past year and both are now 65. We are in a pattern at home with healthy eating and pushing on exercise. I have weight to lose - he is in a good weight situation but could lose a few too. So bucket list item is meeting my weight goals over time and getting much healthier. I have scheduled a lot of MD visits and procedures in January with various specialists to get us up to having everything that needs checking on checked.
For me, time with our grandkids. We have 3 grandchildren that live 100 miles away - 3 yo, 2 yo, and 7 week old. I was M - F nanny mid March - June 1 2020 while the daycare was closed so the two older ones know Nana quite well (I was able to keep my job by working 1 day over 30 day period of time). The baby just was on a trip with mamma and Nana (while daddy took care of the older 2) so mamma could attend family wedding and reception while Nana babysat (adult only wedding/reception). I was able to see close family at hotel and other meals. Baby S had his first formula bottle with Nana - he wasn’t keen on it but was hungry enough to take it – normally he continues to breast feed until he is full; with the bottle/formula, he took a little, stopped, took a little, stopped; he had a bottle with breast milk before when his parents attended a local wedding/reception. Baby S is a very good baby - good routine of diaper changes, eats and sleeps; only cries some mainly when settling himself to sleep - and he takes a pacifier and you rock him a little, otherwise a little crying to let us know he is hungry or needs his diaper changed. When DH saw baby S, his first comment was baby S had more hair than he does. DH loves the grandkids just like he loves the kids and son in law; DH is more keen on time with kids as they are older but he enjoys them. He did ‘baby calisthenics’ with baby S (small movements with arms/legs and counting with good face time). Baby S knows I am familiar - he studies my face so intently.
DH wants to go to NE over fall and visit Gettysburg and other war sites with fall colors/leaves/trees. We were too busy this year.
I would like to have a small pull along travel trailer but DH is not for it at this time – will talk more with relatives that have one and do more research.
DH wants to stay in our current house, but I want to renovate, sell and move away – but it depends where family with grandchildren end up. Also I want to transition with housing in Orlando where single DD lives (but maybe it will be her house and we help with renovations) – but I/we don’t have firm ideas on working that out yet either.
Our city has been lots of professionals moving in and our house will sell quickly (best school district, convenient, attractive neighborhood, custom well built home with good design), but at a better price once we do all I plan to do. Time, energy, and deciding when to do the major projects. I have to convince DH about a small addition and adding covered parking for two spots (already has a large garage) - first step with architect will be once I have some other things completed in the home, and it may be a while yet (years).
DH had a lot of travel with work and he wants to be a home body. So I may need to travel more with friends. However next year we have 3 weddings on 3 consecutive weekends - and travel for us will be with going to first, spending days in other states, and attending the second one on the way back home. Then a flight away for the 3rd - expensive city (we have been before) - so most likely maybe only an extra day or two depending on best flight situation.
There is a lot of good nature to see in our home state and lots to do if we want to seek out activity. We have a wooded hilly park area with access from our neighborhood for a small excursion ‘into the woods’.
Continue with book club and other social activities.
Other travel mainly is visiting family/friends. Would be made easier with travel trailer so we don’t impose much and makes better travel with stops with interesting sites. But that does need to be worked out with DH and I think it may be once we have changes with where the grandkids are.