What's the social scene like at Andover?

<p>(I realize I asked the same question about Brooks, but it's easier to keep track of responses if I separate the topics.)</p>

<p>Is it cliquey, etc.? Does the school feel super small, and is that feeling in a positive or negative way? (is it so small students feel smothered, is it too big, etc.)</p>

<p>What about social events? Are there many parties, etc.? Is the school very elitist?</p>

<p>Basically what I'm asking is, where would a day student from a slightly above average income family fit into the picture?</p>

<p>Thanks in advance.</p>

<p>c’mon guys, i know SOMEBODY on here has to know the answer(:</p>

<p>Hi! I’m a senior at Andover right now and I came as a new Upper last year, so I think I can help to answer your questions.</p>

<p>In terms of the social scene, I guess it’s important to mention that there is no single social scene - the school is pretty enormous as far as New England boarding schools go, and there’s a little of everything. That alone makes for a very, very open, accepting, diverse social feel on campus. However, that doesn’t mean that there aren’t cliques. For example, day students, especially in the lower grades, are known to clump together (possibly because the boarding experience is so different from the day experience) but that is merely the trend, not the rule.</p>

<p>Other than that, though, it’s hard to think of too many other types of totally homogeneous cliques. Yeah, the lax bros hang out as do the rowers, but those aren’t their only groups. What defines the social experience here at Andover is that it’s more common to identify with three or four different social groups than it is to identify with just one or two, and normally, the groups are very diverse in terms of just about everything. So no, Andover is not cliquey, but it’s unrealistic to assume that you’ll never encounter a few groups that you simply can’t break into.</p>

<p>In terms of social events, there are plenty. Every Thursday, the SAB (Student Activities Board, run ENTIRELY BY STUDENTS) sends out The Weekender, a publication that highlights on-campus activities scheduled for the following weekend. There’s always a ton going on - we have a dance just about every weekend, movies are often shown in the Den or Kemper, and there are tons of musical and dramatic performances too. If those don’t tickle your fancy, you can always get together with friends and get day excuses to go off campus and go into Boston. The train station is within walking distance of campus and tickets to Boston’s North Station cost $6.</p>

<p>I’ll link you to some copies of the weekender - I’ve chosen these two because I DJ’d both the Dubstep Dance and the iRave =D</p>

<p>files.me.com/thurstonsmalley/19sw2i</p>

<p>files.me.com/thurstonsmalley/4272zp</p>

<p>In terms of parties… Nah, there aren’t really any “parties” unless a day student feels like being rebellious and taking over the house when his or her parents are gone. And that’s rare.</p>

<p>Elitism… Eh, you can find it, but it’s not incredibly widespread. In fact, most people really look down on elitist attitudes here. Yeah, people often talk **** about Andover High School, but it’s never for stuff like money. Over 44% of students here are on financial aid, and a total of 12% of the student body pays no tuition. There’s no place here for snobbery, and kids know that. I’m one of those full-aid students, and I’ve never felt at a disadvantage or singled out because I have no money. The Office of Financial Aid buys my sports equipment and winter clothing and pays for me to go on school trips like last year’s choral tour of Canada (the financial aid people are AWESOME) and I never feel like people look at me any differently from the guy whose dad co-founded MTV or the guy whose sister is Olivia Wilde of House.</p>

<p>Oh, and I also retain a gallery of pictures and videos that I’ve taken at Andover. I’ve put together a bunch of panoramas, there are plenty of candid shots, and I have some footage I shot at halftime shows and pep rallies, etc.</p>

<p>[MobileMe</a> Gallery](<a href=“http://gallery.me.com/thurstonsmalley/100011]MobileMe”>http://gallery.me.com/thurstonsmalley/100011)</p>

<p>Thanks, Tom. That was very informative.</p>

<p>I’m curious, what is the dating scene at Andover like? Is everyone completely focused on studies and don’t have time to mingle with the opposite gender or is it a lot more relaxed?</p>

<p>Tom-beautiful pictures, thank you for sharing. I want to re-do high school now–lol</p>

<p>Thanks! My pleasure. Seriously, if anyone has anymore questions about the social life at Andover, post them here - I’d be more than happy to be your source of information.</p>

<p>Does everyone want to go to HYP?</p>

<p>I don’t, but many do. It’s definitely not an incredibly widespread thing - in Commons you’ll always see a ton of freshmen wearing Harvard shirts, but then that drops off pretty abruptly in Upper year when kids’ college counselors give them a nice dose of reality…</p>

<p>But no, it’s hardly something that gets talked about. Seniors in particular tend to be pretty private with their college plans and aspirations, partly to avoid embarrassment if their plans don’t work out, and partly because, well, everyone else is applying to college too… It’s hardly anything special</p>

<p>Hey, I have a few questions about Andover, what’s the scene for nerdy like kids? I am somewhat nerdy, and definitely enjoy obsessing over politics or computer programming or math olympiad for hours at an end. Would you describe everyone as “nice” ?</p>

<p>@TomTheCat,
What’s the workload like for an upperclassmen who wants to get good grades? (By Andover standards.) I read in a review of Exeter that some people have to do six hours of work a night for good grades.</p>

<p>Hah! I forgot Olivia Wilde went to Andover! Anyone know if she was particularly popular/well liked/talked about or what activities she was into? (Just idle curiousity~)</p>

<p>Would you say the “hookup” or dating culture is much like that at hs? (i.e. unnecessarily dramatic…) Or I guess a better question is, how would you describe the dating culture? Is there a lot of gossiping and/or bragging going on?</p>