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4. The vast majority of kids who attend ivies did so by their parents wills and madates. "Prestige" took precedence over economy and education
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This is one of the most ignorant, uniformed pieces of trash I have ever encountered. I feel sorry for you.</p>
<p>I can respond to this. We have a son in school and our daughter was accepted to Harvard and is receiving financial aid. Our family income is ~ 200K.</p>
<p>Are you kidding? You just lumped several thousand students into one broad, bad category. It is completely untrue. You say you hate how people say kids at state universities are all dumb yet you yourself think almost the same about those at top schools. It's hypocritical.</p>
<p>Actually, I don't want to argue. Let's settle this.</p>
<p>You can be successful from anywhere, which is why you should follow your heart. If Harvard is the best fit for you, then go there (if you get in). Likewise, if Coastal Carolina is the best fit, then go there. </p>
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Do you suppose if you made somewhere in the 150K+ salary range, and you applied to Harvard, or Yale and noted that you were requesting financial aid, they would basically throw your application in the trash bin? Just curious how they would view someone like this.
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Uhh, no. If applying EA/ED to a school, your app will likely be due around Nov 1. You hear back in the middle of December. Your FAFSA/CSS PROFILE/tax forms aren't due until February or so, if I remember correctly. They don't even know what your financial situation is until after they decide on you - I really think that this is not a factor in the college's admit/reject decision. </p>
<p>As far as I know, Undergraduate Admissions and Financial Aid are separate entities (although usually grouped together under some umbrella office) in most, if not all, of the 'elite' need-blind schools.</p>
<p>Perhaps that "stupid" person at a CC went there for the sole purpose of saving $$$. Perhaps that "stupid" person wants to be debt free after graduating. There is nothing "stupid" about saving money. What is "stupid" is attending an ivy for mere prestige and ending up with an inexorable debt of a mere "120,000.00"</p>
<p>In the end, it's kind of hard to change one's mindset. I guess some were raised into the "Ivy-or-failure" mindset, and we can't really change that. Perhaps one day after college they'll realize that prestige isn't everything.</p>
<p>Robert E. Lee, use your common sense (if you have any)... ON AVERAGE do you think people who graduate from University of Alabama will as much money as people who graduate from Harvard or MIT?</p>
<p>"Really! Everyone here obsesses on going to a "prestigious, competitive," college or university. But why? In the end, if you go to Harvard or a common state university, you still walk away with a piece of paper called a diploma in the end. Why obsess with an "ivy league" or super competitve institution?"</p>
<p>Some people go for the name. "Oh look I've gone to Harvard." Parents will be immensely proud of this child. Friends will "wow" them. They get admiration for that. Some want the experience. Sometimes, I feel like the experience is more valuable and even more memorable than what we get at the end.</p>