3.75 GPA with 2210 SAT / 1480-1490 CR+M will get you full rides at the following, according to http://automaticfulltuition.yolasite.com/ :
Troy
Tuskegee
Howard
Florida A&M
Louisiana Tech
North Carolina Central
Prairie View A&M
I.e. your father’s power over you over the next four years will be less if he cannot threaten to stop funding college because you have a full ride.