Geez, let her relax a bit! Hasn’t she already impressed you with her GPA and college admission? How much more do you want? We don’t know how hard she worked to get those "A"s and last thing you want is her burnt-out in college, which does happen when kids have worked too hard in high school. Phone the college and ask about the policies, but it’s doubtful you need to crack the whip anymore. I get so tired of people not trusting their children - she’s already proved herself. And not telling her it’s okay to relax? I don’t believe in lying to my children because I respect and trust them so they’ve always made me proud.