<p>I do agree that bad things can happen at any school no matter how “healthy” it is. You can have a bad class, you can have a rotten egg (or two or three), you can have a predatorial teacher - and the list goes on. In 2014, none of us should be the least bit surprised by bad behavior, at elite institutions or elsewhere. </p>
<p>Whether a boarding school that you like has the stomach for constant self-examination and improvement is a whole other issue, and to my mind a central factor in deciding where to apply. Many of our elite boarding schools are comfortable with how things are and can lapse into a “boys will be boys” mentality that stubbornly persists today, only called into question when bad behavior is made public. After all, most of the marquis schools, including Thacher, became great and traditions were established when they were all-male. </p>
<p>Real self-examination and change - not lip service - means upending unhealthy traditions (sanctioned or otherwise), confronting the power of money, suffering institutional embarrassment and a whole host of other unpleasantness devoutly to be ignored. However, differentiating the schools that believe they are works in progress from schools that believe that they are finished masterpieces is the first step in identifying a healthy place for your child. Where is your school on that continuum? </p>
<p>If I had a daughter looking at any of the schools below, I would want to know how the school fared in the Independent School Gender Project, a bi-annual survey of the school’s community health - with special emphasis on how women are treated. I would want to know what the survey results revealed about the intended school, and how the school is responding. Most schools don’t publicize the results, but they’re quite telling. And if my desired school didn’t participate at all, I’d be curious why. Being an EQUALLY great boarding school for adolescent boys and girls is hard, ongoing work and there’s just no getting around it.</p>
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<p><a href=“http://www.isgpwomen.org/”>http://www.isgpwomen.org/</a></p>
<p>The research is designed for coed independent schools at the high school level. Participants include schools that are day schools only, have a combination of day and boarding students, and exclusively boarding schools. Schools in every geographic area of the United States, as well as schools in Canada and the United Kingdom, have participated in the research.</p>
<p>Students in grade 9 and in grade 12 participate in the research through completing the questionnaire for students. Adults in the community (administrators, teaching faculty, and residential life staff) complete the questionnaire for adults.</p>
<p>Participating Schools: past and present</p>
<pre><code>Albuquerque Academy, NM
The American School in London, ENG
Appleby College School, ON
Baylor School, TN
The Bishop’s School, CA
The Bishop Strachan School, ON
Brooks School, MA
Cate School, CA
Choate Rosemary Hall, CT
Conserve School, WI
Dana Hall School, MA
Deerfield Academy, MA
Episcopal High School, VA
Gould Academy, ME
Groton School, MA
The Gunnery, CT
Hawaii Preparatory Academy, HI
Hawken School, OH
The Hotchkiss School, CT
Kent School, CT
Lakefield College School, ON
The Loomis Chaffee School, CT
The Masters School, NY
Milton Academy, MA
Miss Porter’s School, CT
Pomfret School, CT
Proctor Academy, NH
Rowland Hall-St. Mark’s School, UT
Saint Mary’s School, NC
Shattuck-St. Mary’s School, MN
Shawnigan Lake School, BC
St. George’s School, RI
St. Mark’s School, MA
St. Paul’s School, NH
St. Stephen’s Episcopal School, TX
Tabor Academy, MA
Taft School, CT
The Thacher School, CA
Verde Valley School, AZ
Wasatch Academy, UT
The Webb Schools, CA
Westminster School, CT
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