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She isn't excited about any school anywhere. Just whats the endgame..............be in medicine or be a doctor etc ... I feel like what is the point. If you don't care I don't care you can go wherever gives you aid or the state public and good luck. <<
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since your top 2 publics are Texas and TAMU, I really don’t see what the problem is.
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The whole process of finding the perfect school she literally could care less. Has seen enough schools that you would think one of them would "Wow her", but she always finds a negative.....her nature I suppose. <<
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Maybe she realizes that “the perfect school” does not exist and doesn’t want to go on a wild goose chase after it.
just back off. it could be that you are being too intrusive and it is causing her to react negatively to the whole college search. maybe she would be more excited if she had a sense of agency and control over the situation, rather than having the perception that you are hijacking the process.
again, it seems like she’s OK going to Texas or TAMU. I just don’t see the problem. she goes to a great school at a good cost and gets a great education for a great value. am i missing something here?
just have her apply to Texas and TAMU. maybe throw in Texas Tech, UT Dallas, and Houston if you want. and then tell her if she wants to add any schools to the list, it’s up to her to research them and let you know.
but really, just back off and leave her alone for a while. it could be that your are stressing out so much about it that she is sick of dealing with it all.