I haven’t kept up with more than a handful of HS classmates after going to college OOS. When I went back for my 40th reunion last year, I was surprised that many of the girls I remembered as having been beautiful and popular looked like they had spent the intervening years smoking and drinking by the pool. Some had clearly had hard lives. My geeky classmates were holding up better in general. Not exactly what I imagined “Revenge of the Nerds” would be.