<p>librahoney08: I am glad I could cheer you up. Admissions is a crap shoot most of the time. Many, many factors go into their "decision". Its never a good idea to get too obsessed with any school, anyway...even if YOU DO GET IN. Why? Because if you get there, and after the honeymoon wears off as it always does by Thanksgiving....you may ask yourself, "is this really me? Am I really happy here?" </p>
<p>Also, dont project your frustrations at the admissions office upon the entire school. Often times the professors are as stumped as anyone on who got in and who got rejected. </p>
<p>Its really hard to come to grips with the fact that your life is in the hands of others...but that is how it goes with admissions. Until you get to where you finally end up. </p>
<p>There is a special place and special reason out there for you. Trust in God. Trust in yourself and your wonderful skillset and personal qualities. </p>
<p>And also take solice in the fact that Psychology 101 is almost the same at most colleges anyway...you know what I mean? Some superb professors exist at some no name colleges....</p>
<p>I went to a relatively no name undergraduate school and had some INCREDIBLE professors.....Russian Literature, Russian History, Existentialist Thought, 20th Century Political Philosophy, on and on.....amazing stuff.</p>
<p>You can see some pretty bawdy personalities on this website and some pretty narcissistic stuff out there....so just consider that as well....and hold onto your core character qualities, your work ethic, and be PROUD of who you are and where you got in.</p>
<p>The other day, I was at a grocery and bumped into a kid I knew from my D's high school. He was looking glum and he was sort of badmouthing where he is likely going to school (a state school...that is second tier to the ELITE state school he desired.) I politely and gently chastised him....."No No No! Embrace YOUR school....you are going there for a reason. You will see this in about 6months.....but for now....embrace them and get into it." He is a very talented theatre kid....just amazing. Dont live your life on notions of "I didnt get into XYZ prestigious school." That is silly. </p>
<p>There is graduate school (where it actually matters more ..because that is where the jobs come from)....so if UCLA is where you want to be...then keep that for graduate school...and in the meantime, embrace your undergrad school.....work hard, have FUN......and keep your head high.</p>
<p>"Aint no flies on me" is the motto I always kept in my head....and I am very proud of my undergrad school (which has risen rapidly in the ranks...and gave me a GREAT education). </p>
<p>Employers will hire you for who you are as a person....and how well you did...irrespective of where you went.</p>