Just to answer a few questions:
For scholarships I am thinking mostly merit aid, because I don’t think I will qualify for financial aid 
I have been thinking smaller liberal arts for the most part. The trouble I am running into is finding a reputable school to get into grad school that is liberal arts but that I will be able to afford as well.
I was thinking driving distance when I said 12 hours 
Thank you all for the input! I have thought about St. Olaf a lot, but they are more selective with AP credit transfer than most schools. If I could get into the college for an affordable price, though, I would love to go there! I am touring it this fall, but it sounds amazing. I have looked into a lot of the others colleges mentioned as well e.g. Concordia, Carleton, etc, but it is so hard to find what schools are worth the price. It really helps to get all of your opinions!