I understand the desire to leave home and have new experiences. Financing a college education, however, is very expensive. Take a close look at the Hope and Zell Miller programs as I think you’d likely be eligible. Getting your tuition paid for and only needing to cover room & board is a big savings, and many would feel it is worth postponing your goal of moving to the northeast and having cold weather. Therefore, I would HIGHLY recommend taking a look at your in-state publics, as they are likely to be your least expensive options by far, and Georgia has some excellent in-state publics, so it’s not as though you will have to be lowering your academic standards. Also, note that big cities usually have bigger costs of living (i.e. more expensive dorms and food).
I’d start with looking at these, all of which are in urban or suburban locations. The schools are large or very large unless the student population is noted.
• University of Georgia
• Georgia College & State University (about 5500 students)
• University of North Georgia (which is getting into the foothills of the Appalachian mountains and should be less hot and humid than the rest of Georgia).
But I want to go to college in the northeast, you say. Until you have AP scores and an SAT/ACT score to see if you’d be competitive enough to have a chance at the most elite colleges that will meet your family’s full need, I think it’s best not to focus on those. Instead, I would look at public colleges that are not their state’s flagship. Those schools are less competitive and might be more interested in getting someone from a state that’s further away. They may be willing to offer an out-of-state tuition waiver, and possibly additional aid as well. They might also have tables on their financial aid pages that will say with X test score and Y GPA you would receive Z in funding to let you know what you might be looking at (and yes, run NFCs on each school’s page).
I don’t know if any of the ones on this list do, but if you are trying the latter strategy, I would probably start my research at these schools, all of which have at least a 60% graduation rate and extracurricular theater programs and a theater major and are located in urban or suburban areas:
• SUNY College at New Paltz (NY, 6500 students)
• West Chester University of Pennsylvania
• Stony Brook University (NY)
• SUNY University at Buffalo (NY)
• Ramapo College of New Jersey (5200 students)
• Towson University (MD)
• University of Maryland – Baltimore County
• Rutgers – Newark (NJ, 8900 students)
• SUNY College at Plattsburgh (NY, 4600 students)
• Montclair State University (NJ)
• SUNY College at Oswego (NY, 6900 students)
• Rutgers – Camden (NJ, 5400 students)
• SUNY Brockport (NY, 6200 students)
• Bridgewater State University (MA, 8800 students)
• SUNY College at Purchase (NY. 3500 students)
• Westfield State University (MA, 4400 students)
ETA: University of Alabama & University of Arizona have very generous merit aid for certain GPAs with SAT/ACT scores. They’re either in the south or west where you say you don’t want to be, but they can be very affordable options for those on a tight budget.